tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12549584550587773162023-11-02T17:06:12.831+05:30tips to impress Indian girlsThis blogs gives the tips,tricks and techniques to impress girls especially indian girls. Some really best approaching techniques.And tips to improve personality and self-confidence.How to impress older women.Tips of sending SMS to women. Also skyrocket your sexual confidence.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1254958455058777316.post-48471562354992800582010-08-04T04:48:00.001+05:302013-01-19T09:26:37.884+05:30what girls actually want in men,-the most important topicAsk any woman what they're actually looking for in their ideal man,<br />
and most of them will say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy<br />
them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends.<br />
<br />
They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk<br />
to about their problems.<br />
<br />
Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk<br />
to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn't get any<br />
farther than being just friends.<br />
<br />
All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they<br />
can never seem to find a nice guy to date.<br />
The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women aren't<br />
lying when they say they want these things...when they think logical<br />
they do, because it makes sense.<br />
<br />
But remember, women don't choose logically what they are attracted<br />
to.<br />
<br />
So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that<br />
will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down.<br />
But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control<br />
and act like a man should.<br />
<br />
So what qualities do women want in men?<br />
<br />
What they've always wanted and always will want. Women want real<br />
men, men that are in control and don't ask for permission to do<br />
anything. They don't want to be in charge, they want someone to be<br />
in charge of them.<br />
<br />
I know this sounds harsh, but it's true.<br />
<br />
Here are some examples, have ever noticed that...<br />
<br />
When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how beautiful she is<br />
she shies away from you?<br />
<br />
This probably happens every time you try and start a conversation.<br />
But when you...<br />
Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved in the<br />
conversation and take you more seriously.<br />
<br />
Also, have you noticed...<br />
When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her to an expensive<br />
dinner, she usually thanks you the evening and goes out with another<br />
guy?<br />
<br />
But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you are equals<br />
she feels attracted to you, because you're not catering to her every<br />
need.<br />
<br />
Have you noticed when....<br />
<br />
You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny.<br />
<br />
But, when you don't call her and you act like you're busy and could<br />
live with her or without her, she won't stop calling you.<br />
The truth is women don't want to be catered to, spoiled or<br />
treated like princesses. This is what women want from a man...<br />
<br />
First of all, women want you to be confident in your self. So, if<br />
you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off.<br />
Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around.<br />
They don't want to talk about what you are going to do, they just<br />
want you to lead the way and do it.<br />
<br />
They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional.<br />
Using 'disconnections' works most NATURALLY to make it<br />
challenging, fun, yet exciting enough to 'entice' women (esp those who<br />
get hit on a lot) to stick longer and see what you've got in store for them<br />
as you're talking.<br />
<br />
<br />
Women want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring and dull.<br />
Just because you are into collecting stamps or currencies,<br />
it does NOT mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your<br />
hobby.<br />
<br />
Women want you to make them laugh. So as you can see,<br />
entertaining and fun = VERY IMPORTANT.<br />
<br />
They don't want to know everything about you all at once, they want<br />
to wonder. So, no matter how tempting it may be you don't have to<br />
tell them you whole life story.<br />
<br />
Women want to keep guessing.<br />
<br />
They hate it... guessing, not knowing what you're up to...<br />
<br />
But secretly LOVE at at the same time... that's what makes this<br />
game so 'exciting'... so appealing for them... not knowing what's<br />
going to happen next.<br />
They want you to have more to talk about than "the game last night",<br />
they want you to be interesting.<br />
<br />
They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to have<br />
a life goal or something you are trying to achieve.<br />
<br />
In other words, they want to know what you want from life.<br />
so go on guyz.....<br />
<br />
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<br />
<b>1- She doesn't want you to go for hours</b> <br />
Many guys think the key to pleasing a woman is to have the sexual stamina of a marathon runner and go for hours. The problem is women get tired (and sore) during a long sex session. Secretly your woman wants you know please her without subjecting her to a lengthy sex session. If you can please her in a half an hour, then she really won't care if you can go for hours.<br />
<br />
<b>2-She sometimes wants sex, not romance </b><br />
While all women profess a love for romantic lovemaking filled with candles and soft music, sometimes they want sex to be a little dirty. Even though romance is an important part of the sexual experience, there are often moments when you can score some serious points simply by acting in a VERY non-romantic manner. For instance, she'll sometimes wants you to simply rip her clothes off and have a quickie.<br />
<br />
<b>3-She wants YOU to be in control</b><br />
It's a simple truth. Women want to be with men who act like MEN. This means you should never behave in a lower status man and act like you don't know what you're doing in the bedroom. Simply put, you have to act like a man when you're having sex. Being a man is about knowing the specific things which pleases your woman and then DOING them. So when you're in the bedroom, don't act timid or shy. Instead give off the aura that you're completely confident during sex and you're in complete control of her pleasure. Remember one of the most intense orgasms a woman can get is from being with someone who can confidently show that he knows what he's doing.<br />
<br />
<b>4- She wants to try new things</b><br />
There are a lot of different sexual experiences your woman secretly wants, she's probably privately fantasizing about stuff you can with her (or to her). The important thing to remember is everybody has fantasies. Your job is to coax them out of her and then work hard to fulfill them<b> </b><br />
<b><br />
</b><br />
<b> 5- She wants it in the morning </b><br />
Guys are known for the ability to be ready for sex in 3.5 seconds. Women on the other hand profess a desire for extensive foreplay. That's the reason why many guys think women don't want a "quickie" in the morning. However the truth is a lot of women secretly want a bit of sex in the morning before they start the day. Simply try to initiate things in the morning and you'll be surprised at her response. Women have lots of secrets they keep from men. But if you can reveal her secret desires in the bedroom then you'll quickly become her perfect lover. Finally, there are a lot more secrets to giving her what she wants in the bedroom<br />
<br />
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<br />
While you probably know the importance of a relationship or even<br />
might be looking for that special someone, sometimes you just<br />
want to get laid.<br />
<br />
That's why it's important to know how to seduce any woman you<br />
meet!<br />
<br />
Without seduction, you have little chance of having sex.<br />
<br />
Now many guys understand the importance of seduction, but they<br />
don't know where to start. In fact they've probably found that<br />
it can be quite difficult to transition from a date to "getting<br />
it on" with a woman.<br />
<br />
If you're one of these guys, then I don't have to tell you that<br />
it's frustrating to like a woman but have no clue about how to<br />
seduce her.<br />
<br />
But allow me to let you in on a little secret...<br />
<br />
WOMEN LIKE SEX AS MUCH AS US!<br />
<br />
While they pretend to be seduced, they actually probably have as<br />
much desire for sex as any man. However they're fairly selective<br />
about the manner of their sexual encounters.<br />
<br />
For instance, women don't like to make the first move. Instead<br />
they want to be pursued and desired by men. In essence this means<br />
you have to have the courage and forwardness to become a seducer<br />
of women.<br />
<br />
Even if a woman is really into you, sex won't happen unless you<br />
make the first move. That means if she's into you, there'll be<br />
little resistance to your seduction techniques.<br />
<br />
Now you might be one of those guys who is nervous about making<br />
the first move.<br />
<br />
If that's the case, then you can use the following technique<br />
for progressing from a date to having sex...<br />
<br />
It's called 'MAKING A initiation'<br />
<br />
A initiation is any point where you can ESCALATE and interaction<br />
with a woman.<br />
<br />
An example would be when you're talking to a woman and you start<br />
kissing her.<br />
<br />
It's important to know why initiations work. In other words,<br />
you have notice those SPECIFIC moments where an OBSTACLE is<br />
preventing you from taking any further action. By spotting<br />
these roadblocks, you easily overcome them!<br />
<br />
And once this happens, you'll rapidly increase your success<br />
with women.<br />
<br />
To go from meeting a woman to having sex, you need to make a plan<br />
for EVERY escalation point and what you need to do to get to the<br />
next step.<br />
<br />
By knowing how to navigate through this process, you'll discover<br />
it's pretty easy to seduce many different women!<br />
<br />
My advice for planning out your transitions is to write down<br />
all the times where you encounter a roadblock or stopping point.<br />
Then make a plan for overcoming it!<br />
<br />
So think of this moment and how you'll handle it!<br />
<br />
Some examples could include getting a woman's number, setting<br />
up a date, initiating physical contact, kissing her and then<br />
finally seducing her.<br />
<br />
Once you know what you're going to do, put it to memory!<br />
<br />
By planning out your transitions, you'll be able to rapidly<br />
seduce her with confidence and ease.<br />
<br />
Understanding how to succeed with women is something you CAN learn!<br />
<br />
If you understand these transition techniques, you'll be able<br />
to QUICKLY and EFFORTLESSLY seduce any woman you meet.<br />
<br />
Seduction isn't a hard skill! If you're in a conversation<br />
with a woman and she's attracted to you, then it isn't hard<br />
to get her into the bedroom.<br />
<br />
You just have to know how to handle the next step!<br />
<br />
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<br />
I want to share a story with you all that I thought was<br />
interesting.<br />
<br />
Friday night, I was out with a friend of mine clubbing. As we<br />
were walking from one club to another, we saw two women walking<br />
together in front of us.<br />
<br />
These women were HOT!<br />
<br />
So hot, in fact, that every guy they passed by on the sidewalk<br />
tried to talk to them. How did they try this? By saying things<br />
like:<br />
<br />
"Hey, where you going?"<br />
<br />
"Damn, you fine!"<br />
<br />
"Hey, come back here, baby!"<br />
<br />
Needless to say, these girls were completely ignoring each and<br />
every guy who talked to them.<br />
<br />
It's a harsh reality that most girls who are as hot as these two<br />
were get approached by men ALL THE TIME, and have heard every<br />
stupid line in the book. In fact, they get approached so much,<br />
that they don't even respond anymore. They're just focused on<br />
getting to where they're going.<br />
<br />
So of course, upon seeing this, I thought to myself "How would<br />
I approach these girls?"<br />
<br />
The answer was pretty self-evident. In fact, it was staring<br />
me right in the face!<br />
<br />
The situation was dictating what I should say to them.<br />
<br />
"Oh my god! Every single guy is trying to pick you guys up! How<br />
annoying is that? You guys need to hire BODYGUARDS just to keep<br />
all these horny waldos away!"<br />
<br />
This is an example of a SITUATIONAL OPENER.<br />
<br />
Situational Openers can be the best way to meet a woman if<br />
they are done right. This is because this type of Opener is<br />
UNIQUE to the interaction you are having with the woman.<br />
<br />
Not only that, but it shows you guys have a common<br />
understanding of the reality you are mutually experiencing.<br />
And that, my friends, creates a connection between the two<br />
of you.<br />
<br />
It's like knowing the punch line to a joke most others have no<br />
clue about.<br />
<br />
And more importantly, this is one of my most favorite kind of<br />
situational opener, namely, the "Crash and Burn" opener.<br />
<br />
This is a situational opener where you capitalize on other<br />
men's failures, while conveying the illusion that you are<br />
different from the other guys and are not looking to get into<br />
the woman's pants (even though the truth may be VASTLY<br />
different from that which you are conveying).<br />
<br />
For example, anytime you are in a situation where there are<br />
women you want to approach, and you see a guy go up to them<br />
and try to hit on them, this gives you the chance to use the<br />
"Crash and Burn" opener.<br />
<br />
Simply walk up to the girl, and comment on what the other<br />
guy did wrong.<br />
<br />
Saying things like:<br />
<br />
"So, how'd he do?"<br />
<br />
or<br />
<br />
"Did it hurt? He was hitting on you pretty hard. Did it<br />
hurt?"<br />
<br />
Or anything along those lines will open up your target for<br />
conversation. These types of "Crash and Burn" openers work<br />
great in high stimulus environments where girls are being<br />
hit on (like malls and clubs, for example).<br />
<br />
So next time you see some poor schmoe strike out, be sure<br />
to take the opportunity to capitalize on it!<br />
<br />
You can find out more about the "Crash and Burn" Opener,<br />
along with other Situational Openers in my ebook, "The Art<br />
of Approaching: How to meet ANY Woman, ANY Time, ANY Where<br />
you may be."<br />
<br />
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is a topic covered by MANY sites, there is almost TOO much<br />
information out there.<br />
<br />
What's the end result? Well, with the large amount of "seduction<br />
material", the average guy can learn a lot about various "pick up<br />
tricks".<br />
<br />
But in all likelihood, he'll fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY<br />
behind each technique.<br />
<br />
Frankly, I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be boiled<br />
down to a few easy steps. If you understand the philosophy behind<br />
each step, then you'll do better then 99% of the other guys who<br />
only look for "quick-fix" solutions.<br />
<br />
So here is formula for how seduction works:<br />
<br />
<b>1- Mental Game</b><br />
<br />
The most "seductive" men are the guys who overcome the PROBLEMS<br />
with their confidence AND self limiting beliefs. What these guys<br />
understand is the importance of having the right mindset before<br />
approaching women.<br />
<br />
I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their<br />
mind when it comes to meeting women. In order to be seductive to<br />
women, you must ensure you're displaying an attractive<br />
personality at ALL times!<br />
<br />
<b>2- Approaching Women</b><br />
<br />
Approaching women isn't about using some cheesy pick up line!<br />
<br />
It's about displaying a high status personality while attracting<br />
her interest. That's why it's important to use a neutral opener<br />
that doesn't indicate your interest.<br />
<br />
Most women want guys who are high status. By NOT displaying signs<br />
of interest on your approach, you'll attract her attention<br />
without triggering her natural inclination to be wary of new guys<br />
talking to her. And this helps to reinforce a confident, yet<br />
mysterious persona.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>3- Make Her Attracted</b><br />
<br />
You CAN'T have seduction she's attracted to you first. And this<br />
attraction is established within the first few minutes of meeting<br />
a guy.<br />
<br />
As I stated before, a big mistake you could make is to<br />
demonstrate YOUR attraction to a woman before she displays hers.<br />
<br />
Once you approach a woman, you need to focus on creating<br />
attraction. There are many routines and techniques you can use to<br />
make this happen. In fact, MOST of the content you'll find on<br />
"seduction websites" focuses on creating that spark of attraction.<br />
<br />
For now, all you need to know is the importance of creating<br />
attraction.<br />
<br />
<b>4- Show your attraction</b><br />
<br />
In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a guy, she<br />
must know that you like her for who SHE IS instead of her<br />
appearance.<br />
<br />
As a woman becomes attracted to you, she'll demonstrate specific<br />
'Indicators of Interest'. Once you detect these flirting signals,<br />
you should "push and pull" the interaction. Basically these are<br />
routines where you subtly get a woman to sell herself.<br />
<br />
And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for, you can<br />
demonstrate your own signs of attraction.<br />
<br />
Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your attraction is<br />
to create sexual tension. This is what flirting is all about. One<br />
minute you're showing signs of interest, the next you're pushing<br />
her away and teasing her in a funny manner.<br />
<br />
<b>5- The Seduction</b><br />
<br />
While this is the last step listed, seduction is something that<br />
should be happen from the moment you meet a woman. From the<br />
moment you first speak to her, you must be communicating a<br />
sexually confident aura.<br />
<br />
Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and<br />
responding with the appropriate response. And during the later<br />
stages of interaction, seduction is about knowing how to<br />
physically escalate, kiss her and THEN progress towards "closing<br />
the deal".<br />
<br />
In addition, it's also about being the guy who is confident<br />
enough the control each level of progression. This is the essence<br />
of the DOMINANT male!<br />
<br />
So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction summarized<br />
into a few steps.<br />
<br />
<br />
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<br />
Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out<br />
over 50% of your communication comes from your body language -<br />
what you DON'T say and less then 8% of your communication comes<br />
from what you DO say.<br />
<br />
What does this mean to you?<br />
<br />
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say<br />
things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to what<br />
you say (at least initially).<br />
<br />
You see, you could have the best game in the world and be able<br />
to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online,<br />
but if you used those same successful techniques in the real<br />
world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc -<br />
You would simply crash and burn.<br />
<br />
Honestly, body language is most important in attracting women.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Body language basics:</b><br />
<br />
1. <b>Smile</b><br />
<br />
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that<br />
you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick<br />
as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time.<br />
<br />
You also need to let her know that you are confident and<br />
comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best<br />
way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen<br />
that you can tell is about to give you the "dead eye", give her<br />
a big smile.<br />
<br />
Practice smiling at random people. You'll be surprised by how<br />
many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling<br />
WORKS. Just don't make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)<br />
<br />
2. <b>Eye contact</b><br />
<br />
As you know there's nothing worse than staring at a woman's chest<br />
- or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys<br />
who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to<br />
not look at her chest - she'll wonder why her womanly powers<br />
don't work with you and she'll seek your attention and<br />
subconsciously try to get you to look!<br />
<br />
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much<br />
because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact<br />
with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be<br />
comfortable for most women.<br />
<br />
Don't stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally<br />
look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make<br />
a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make<br />
serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window<br />
to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.<br />
<br />
There are even speed dating type events being run that involve<br />
just staring into each others eyes - and from what I hear, they<br />
are pretty successful.<br />
<br />
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation<br />
time. Be natural.<br />
<br />
<br />
3. <b>Upright posture</b><br />
<br />
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do<br />
prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big<br />
film actors like john,hritik etc. They all have good posture.<br />
<br />
It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at<br />
least in mind). It's just generally more attractive and says<br />
lots about who you are. Plus it's good for your back and will<br />
help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.<br />
<br />
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.<br />
<br />
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Today I want to discuss "phone game." Specifically we're going<br />
to cover what to say on your first phone call.<br />
<br />
As you probably know, a girl's opinion is largely based on the<br />
feelings she experiences during your first phone conversation.<br />
<br />
Most guys fail in this area, because they simply "wing it"<br />
instead of forming a plan of action.<br />
<br />
<br />
Whenever calling a girl there were a NUMBER of things you should<br />
do. For instance, you should do the following in EVERY phone<br />
conversation:<br />
<br />
1) Have a "call back humor" joke:<br />
<br />
Before you get a number, it's important to have some sort of<br />
connection or private joke. It could be a nickname you give her.<br />
<br />
Or if you met her online, you could refer to something about her<br />
profile that you busted her on.<br />
<br />
The point is using call back humor will immediately establish<br />
that connection you formed when you first got her number. It<br />
doesn't have to be anything fancy, just a something that shows<br />
points out the connection the two of you have.<br />
<br />
2) Have a few questions about her<br />
<br />
It's important to establish a connection with any conversation<br />
you have with a woman. Before calling her, jot down a few<br />
questions that you geniunely want to know about her.<br />
<br />
Ask about her:<br />
<br />
* Hobbies and life outside work<br />
* Dreams and aspirations<br />
* Favorite places to travel<br />
* Music, movies, and books she likes<br />
<br />
Now you'll find that many so-called "seduction gurus" tell you to<br />
ignore any rapport seeking questions before you know she's into<br />
you. And they'll also probably recommend never asking anything<br />
that makes you seem like you're trying to seek her approval.<br />
<br />
But I honestly believe that it's necessary to ask questions like<br />
this. Honestly, it's important for creating attraction. However<br />
it's equally important to make her feel that sense of connection<br />
where you truly get her.<br />
<br />
So I recommend you ask questions about her. But you also want to<br />
challenge her at the same time. Ask her why she likes the things<br />
she does. Tease her a little. Create some banter between the two<br />
of you.<br />
<br />
3) Have stories to tell<br />
<br />
Stories should be the backbone of ANY attraction building<br />
conversation. Frankly one of the biggest mistake I've made in<br />
the past was having nothing to talk about.<br />
<br />
Before picking up the phone, you should jot down a few notes<br />
about some of the interesting things you've done during the week.<br />
Also if you have a story from your past that you know women love,<br />
NOW is the time you should tell it!<br />
<br />
Any story you tell should put you in the best possible light. It<br />
should subtly demonstrate that you're a fun, high status guy who<br />
has a lot going on in your life. And if this isn't the truth,<br />
then it's time to get out there and do something!<br />
<br />
<br />
4) Have a date idea<br />
<br />
NEVER, ever pick up the phone without having a few fun activities<br />
planned. It can be something you're doing with your friends. Or<br />
it can be something as simple as a trip to the mall.<br />
<br />
The point is you want a specific activity that you're doing<br />
during the week. And then as the conversation comes to the<br />
conclusion, you should invite her to come join you.<br />
<br />
Typically this is known as a date. However I'm a firm believer<br />
in not using that word OR making it sound like a big deal. Let<br />
her know that you want to see her again. But you're also NOT<br />
structuring your entire life around seeing her. If she agrees,<br />
she agrees. If she doesn't...Oh well. Next.<br />
<br />
Bottom line is a phone call should be a fun experience. Use it<br />
to establish a connection, create attraction, and showcase your<br />
unique personality. Don't make the mistake of being boring<br />
<br />
Instead be a exciting, engaging guy that she'll want to<br />
immedietely see in person.<br />
<br />
<br />
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<br />
1: She adjusts her clothing or her hair when you are around.<br />
<br />
2: She points her breasts in your direction and thrusts them out<br />
when talking to you.<br />
<br />
3: She laughs at your jokes... even if they are somewhat unfunny.<br />
<br />
4: She gets visibly jealous when you talk about other women.<br />
<br />
5: She bends over backwards to satisfy your requests.<br />
<br />
6: She asks other people (your friends) about you.<br />
<br />
7: She dresses up when she sees you.<br />
<br />
8: She asks you if you have got a girlfriend... or your love life<br />
in general.<br />
<br />
9: She asks you out.<br />
<br />
10: She approaches you first.<br />
<br />
11: She texts you out of sudden, and making up trivial topics over<br />
text.<br />
<br />
12: She gives you her phone number when you only asked her for<br />
somethning else.<br />
<br />
13: She flirts with you and pretends to be annoyed when you tease<br />
her.<br />
<br />
14: She maintains eye contact with you and doesn't look away, or<br />
over your shoulder.<br />
<br />
15: She appears nervous when you touch her... but she doesn't move<br />
away.<br />
<br />
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<br />
This amazing tactic will increase your success rate by 90%, and ensure you NEVER get rejected on the approach!<br />
<br />
<b>The Eye Contact Test</b><br />
<br />
We all know that eye contact is important, but something funny happens when we make eye contact with another person...<br />
<br />
We become COMPELLED to respond to them in some fashion!<br />
<br />
When it comes to women, you can use eye contact to find out if she's open to meeting you. In fact, in a way, she'll be opening YOU!<br />
<br />
So here's what you do...<br />
<br />
The next time you see a woman you want to meet, LOCK your eyes on her!<br />
<br />
Seriously, just stare at her eyes, even if she's not looking at you.<br />
<br />
When people are out and about, they will usually look around to keep aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you're locking onto will look around to scan the area.<br />
<br />
When she comes to you, her eyes will inevitably meet yours, and you'll be locked in eye contact.<br />
<br />
When that happens, simply SMILE at her.<br />
<br />
If she smiles back, guess what?<br />
<br />
She's OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER!<br />
<br />
If she doesn't, then move on to someone who is.<br />
<br />
And when she does smile back, say "Hi!" And if she responds - you're in! Go right into your opener.<br />
<br />
I like to use this tactic in low-key situations, like grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc.<br />
<br />
Even though it can work just as well in public places (as long as the light is high enough that she can actually SEE you!).<br />
<br />
Often times, after you smile, the girl herself will say "Hi!" and then the rest is easy.<br />
<br />
The next time you go out, do this to every woman you see. Lock your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you'll be surprised by the results.<br />
<br />
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conversations with women, it's a way to demonstrate that you have<br />
high social status. Whereas most guys kiss girls asses, YOU will<br />
use teasing to PUSH them away with a bratty comment, then PULL<br />
them in with something that shows your interest. <br />
<br />
For example, you could tease her by taking her hand in yours,<br />
only to push it away and tease her for "being too forward." Then<br />
you continue on by saying that "she's the one treating you like a<br />
piece of meat and is only interested in 'one thing'..."<br />
<br />
Sure this doesn't make LOGICAL sense to guys. But you have to<br />
remember flirting isn't about doing stuff in a logical manner;<br />
it's about emotion.<br />
<br />
You want to create the kind of tension that's VERY sexually<br />
attractive to women.<br />
<br />
Think of being a little kid again...<br />
<br />
When you were 10, you teased a girl that you liked by slapping<br />
her, or pulling her hair. And while you'd likely to get a<br />
restraining order placed on you by pulling those stunts now, it's<br />
still basically the same idea.<br />
<br />
Put another way: Teasing is "the new" method of pulling a girl's<br />
ponytail.<br />
<br />
Teasing should be light when you first meet a woman. Stick to<br />
topics like her choice in purses. Accuse her of buying "knock-<br />
off" or imitation clothing. <br />
<br />
The key is to make her think you're funny...not an egotistical<br />
prick.<br />
<br />
If she's laughing, then you've won half the battle.<br />
<br />
Now one of the best ways to understand humor is to study comedy<br />
and comedians. The caveat here is to avoid the comedy routines<br />
where the person makes fun of himself the whole time. <br />
<br />
YOUR comedy should NEVER be used to point out your own flaws or<br />
insecurities. This will only lower your social value and<br />
showcase the unattractive side of your personality.<br />
<br />
To blend humor with teasing, you should joke with women in a way<br />
that's playful and not offensive. In other words, you should know<br />
the RIGHT way to showcase a personality that'll make women laugh<br />
while making you extremely attractive. <br />
<br />
When you're talking to a woman, you can three tactics REALLY ramp<br />
up a humorous personality:<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>#1 - Exaggeration</b><br />
<br />
<br />
This concept is simple, you take something about her and pick on<br />
her in a RIDICULOUS manner. <br />
<br />
For example, try saying something like, "I like the size of your<br />
handbag. It's like you're hiding a Mexican army in there!". Or<br />
if she's wearing a large piece of jewelry you say "Damn girl,<br />
that's some serious bling you got there!" <br />
<br />
Exaggeration is a great way to joke with her about a small thing<br />
she does and tease her in a way that "assumes familiarity."<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>#2 - Role Reversals</b><br />
<br />
<br />
This is all about taking line traditionally used by women, and<br />
pretend that SHE is doing it to you. For instance, your average<br />
girl is always being viewed as a sexual object by men. So you<br />
reverse roles by making the claim that she's hitting on you and<br />
is "trying to get into your arms."<br />
<br />
Not only does this make you seem funny, but it also shows that<br />
you understand women.<br />
<br />
A variation of this technique is to make the self-conscious<br />
statements you'll often hear girls tell each other. A comment<br />
like "Does this outfit make my head look big?" will be sure to<br />
make her laugh.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>#3 - Use Characters</b><br />
<br />
<br />
Taking on the role of a funny character can be excellent way to<br />
show your humor. This is where you take on a persona or a "type"<br />
of guy she typically meets.<br />
<br />
For instance after vibing with a girl for awhile, I'll joke about<br />
her getting hit on by all these WIERDOS. Then I'll immediately<br />
switch into a nerdy persona (hands in pocket, slouchy posture,<br />
geeky sound voice). Then I'll make a joke about how she HAS to<br />
come a Star Trek Convention with me.<br />
<br />
A character like this works REALLY well when she knows that<br />
you're a fun, interesting guy. It shows that you *get* what she<br />
goes through AND you're not like the losers she normally deals<br />
with.<br />
<br />
One rule of thumb for creating characters...Think of the "types"<br />
of guys that usually annoy her, then assume this persona. But<br />
do it in a way that let's her know that you understand what<br />
it's like for her to deal with someone like this.<br />
<br />
Now you might be asking "what if I'm not a funny guy?"<br />
<br />
Also, watching stand-up comedians is also a great way to expose<br />
yourself to all that is funny.<br />
<br />
Another great technique that is often overlooked is to pay<br />
attention to your friends and the funny things you discuss<br />
together. Taking cues from those you're most comfortable with can<br />
be invaluable.<br />
<br />
My final piece of advice is to pay CLOSE attention to the things<br />
that come out of a woman's mouth. Be an opportunity seeker and<br />
spot the moments when you can rip on something she's saying. <br />
<br />
For instance, you could misinterpret EVERYTHING she says into a<br />
sexual context, like she's trying to "take advantage of you."<br />
Look for EVERY sexual innuendo that she gives you. Exaggerate the<br />
little things.<br />
<br />
For instance, if she says, "This dress doesn't look right on me,"<br />
tease her by saying something like, "Yeah, I didn't want to tell<br />
you that."<br />
<br />
If you're able to pick up on the little things around you, it's<br />
easy to create a personality that's both FUNNY and incredibly<br />
ATTRACTIVE to women!<br />
<br />
Keep on Rocking and Rolling,<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
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readers just like you who are having difficulty in some aspect<br />
of their dating life.<br />
<br />
Throughout this blog, I'm going to include some answers<br />
to the questions I commonly get. By doing it this way, I can<br />
hopefully cover the problems you're having while telling the<br />
thousands of other guys on this list. <br />
<br />
In today's blog I'm going to respond to a question I<br />
typically receive once or twice a DAY:<br />
<br />
"What do I when a girl already has a boyfriend?"<br />
<br />
<br />
I'm going to be honest with you...<br />
<br />
When a woman talks about her boyfriend, she's sending you signals<br />
that she's not available for dating. It's her way to tell other<br />
guys that she's taken WITHOUT creating an awkward situation.<br />
<br />
From what you've written, it's my OPINION that she likes you as<br />
a friend. <br />
<br />
To be honest, this happens a LOT to guys. They mistakenly<br />
think a woman is showing a sign of attraction when she opens up<br />
and shares her inner feelings. However when a woman enjoys<br />
hanging out with you, but talks about her boyfriend, she's<br />
telling you that you're her FRIEND.<br />
<br />
Now that does NOT mean you don't have a chance. The sad fact is<br />
SOME women are open to doing dating guys despite the fact that<br />
they have a boyfriend. <br />
<br />
If you're wondering if she's like this, I recommend you do<br />
something called "The Attraction Test". I works like this:<br />
<br />
<br />
<b> 1- Treat her like a woman</b><br />
<br />
<br />
When you're with her, treat her LIKE a woman. In other<br />
words, don't be afraid to joke about sex or tease her in a<br />
suggestive manner (ie: cocky/funny). <br />
<br />
Don't be coy or nonsexual around her. Instead act like a guy<br />
who is comfortable with the topic of sex. You're doing this<br />
because you want her to view you as someone she WANTS to date,<br />
NOT as a only a friend<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>2- Find out more about her boyfriend</b><br />
<br />
<br />
Next, you should do some research on her boyfriend.<br />
<br />
Now I want to mention one thing....I personally think it's a<br />
BAD idea to intentionally sabotage a relationship.<br />
<br />
But...<br />
<br />
If she's not happy (or is attracted to you) then it's YOUR<br />
decision if you want to pursue things. I want to take a chance<br />
then you need to find out more about this OTHER guy.<br />
<br />
So try asking her about the boyfriend. Figure out what she thinks<br />
of him and their relationship. If it appears that she's not in a<br />
good relationship, then this might be an indicator that she could<br />
into you.<br />
<br />
You might have a chance if she's not happy!<br />
<br />
On the other hand, if she gushes about how wonderful he is and what<br />
she loves about him, then you're being sent a CLEAR sign that you<br />
probably won't succeed with this woman.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b> 3- Date other women</b><br />
<br />
<br />
Finally, you want to do something that might seem a little<br />
"counterintuitive". Instead of going after this girl, you want<br />
to date OTHER women. <br />
<br />
The idea behind dating other women is to test her reaction. If<br />
she seems upset or jealous, then you KNOW that she's ripe for<br />
the taking! <br />
<br />
Next time you're around her, start talking about the women<br />
you're currently dating. In fact, make it seem that you're<br />
being actively pursued by a number of different girls in your<br />
life. <br />
<br />
<br />
But back to this particular woman...<br />
<br />
If you're talking about OTHER women you're interested in, you<br />
could see some jealous feelings from her. When this happens you<br />
know she has feelings for you.<br />
<br />
<br />
Well if you want to find out the true feelings of the girl,<br />
you have to a little research.<br />
<br />
<b>Remember this...</b><br />
<br />
Regardless of the outcome, you should work hard to date different<br />
women till you find one that you REALLY want to be with. Once<br />
you've dated lots of women, you won't be wrapped in ONE woman who<br />
might not be returning your feelings.<br />
<br />
Never confuse a woman's TRUE intentions!<br />
<br />
My advice is if you like a woman THAT WAY, then act like a guy<br />
she WANTS to date. In other words, don't be her buddy<br />
or the shoulder to cry on.<br />
<br />
If you do, you'll end up in the worst place possible...<br />
<br />
THE FRIENDS ZONE!<br />
<br />
This is the last place you want to go. <br />
<br />
SO......Dont be there.<br />
<br />
<br />
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naturally attractive to any woman. While MOST men need routines,<br />
gimmicks and other PUA games, there are some born with a natural<br />
ability to attract without even thinking about it.<br />
<br />
What I find interesting is "naturals" come in all shapes and<br />
sizes. I've seen some who are ugly, fat AND poor. Yet they're<br />
BLESSED with the uncanny ability to unleash a girl's "WILD SIDE"<br />
<br />
Now I'll be the first to admit that I am NOT a natural with<br />
women. Before I tried to make a change to this area of my life, I<br />
did manage to "Forrest Gump" my way with women. But looking back,<br />
most of my success was largely due to a few factors:<br />
<br />
* Alcohol<br />
* Being in a comfortable environment<br />
* Talking to a friend of a friend<br />
* Having a woman approach me<br />
<br />
As you can see, I wasn't as bad as some others out there. But, I<br />
feel that at one point in my life, my success with women was very<br />
limited.<br />
<br />
But to the main point of this blog...<br />
<br />
There ARE men who have a natural touch with women! <br />
<br />
What makes them different?<br />
<br />
Well as I've recently discovered, there is ONE major factor that<br />
separates the "naturals" from the "average" men:<br />
<br />
Naturals give off a postive attitude!<br />
<br />
Okay, I know I'm venturing into the realm of "hippy-dippy" new<br />
agey talk. However, there's an important lesson to be learned<br />
here...<br />
<br />
Naturals intuitively know the importance of triggering a woman's<br />
positive emotions. In other words, naturals are FUN to be around<br />
and provide an interesting view of the world.<br />
<br />
Primarily, naturals know how to clearly describe their goals and<br />
dreams. Whenever given an opportunity, naturals will talk about<br />
life in an exciting manner.<br />
<br />
Since most women live boring unfulfilled lives, a natural can<br />
provide an dramatic change of pace.<br />
<br />
Next, naturals are able to avoid the negativity displayed by many<br />
men. If you think about it, most people are constantly<br />
complaining about how much life sucks.<br />
<br />
Instead of simply complaining, a natural will express what he<br />
doesn't like in way that isn't negative. Instead he finds a way<br />
to put a positive spin on almost any scenario.<br />
<br />
To illustrate, let's go over a few statements made by an AVERAGE<br />
person and by a NATURAL:<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Average :</b><br />
<br />
<br />
1) "Those girls are so bitchy. I can't believe they treated me<br />
like that! "<br />
<br />
2) "This is the worst service I've ever had. Where the hell did<br />
they hire this waitress? "<br />
<br />
3) I'm so tired right now. I don't feel like doing anything<br />
right now"<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Natural :</b><br />
<br />
<br />
1) "I didn't do my best in that set. Next time, I'm going to<br />
display more energy and positive body language"<br />
<br />
2) "Looks like we're not going to have the greatest service<br />
tonight. But, at least I know the food is going to be awesome!"<br />
<br />
3) "Who is tired? I'm ready to go!"<br />
<br />
As you can see, these statements basically say the same thing.<br />
However the WAY each type of guy says them has a direct link to<br />
a specific emotion.<br />
<br />
Naturals know that energy and enthusiasm is important in EVERY<br />
interaction. If you can learn ONE thing from these guys, it<br />
should be that you NEED to display a more fun and exiting<br />
personality. If you show a woman a GREAT time, then she'll be<br />
naturally drawn to you.<br />
<br />
An one of the best ways to be more "natural" with women is<br />
to understand how to display an attractive personality<br />
<br />
You won't believe how easy it is to get ANY woman when you're<br />
displaying them with a FUN, exciting attitude!<br />
<br />
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<br />
This is a common question guys have when they're on a date with<br />
a girl. They like her, think she's attractive and want to<br />
find a way to "close the deal". <br />
<br />
Unfortunately, most guys are CLUELESS about how to take things<br />
to the next level.<br />
<br />
If you're like a lot of men, then you're probably had problems in<br />
the past with making that transition from a date to the bedroom. <br />
<br />
And most women aren't NEVER seem to help you out!<br />
<br />
But there's something that you probably never realized...<br />
<br />
To have sex with a woman, you have to understand that it's a<br />
PROCESS not a DESTINATION. In other words, if you're wondering<br />
how to make a move 2-3 hours into the date, then you've<br />
ALREADY failed!<br />
<br />
The secret to moving from a date to sex is simple...<br />
<br />
You establish physical contact at the start of the date and<br />
build up this tension till you're having sex. In other words,<br />
you have to know how to TOUCH her. <br />
<br />
Establish a physical connection, is the BEST way to led things<br />
towards a sexual encounter. But you have to do it the RIGHT<br />
way! <br />
<br />
So when I tell you to touch her, I DON'T mean you should act<br />
like a sex-starved pervert who is constantly groping women. <br />
<br />
Instead you should follow a natural progression which revolves<br />
around her levels of comfort.<br />
<br />
In essence you want to follow what I like to call:<br />
<br />
<b><br />
The Touching Progression Model</b><br />
<br />
<br />
The idea behind this technique is to make a woman feel<br />
comfortable with your touch in order to increase the level of<br />
sexual tension.<br />
<br />
So if you want to become intimate with her, you should<br />
initiate touching in a manner that starts with "safe touching"<br />
and goes all the way to "sexual touching".<br />
<br />
And as you progress up the "touching ladder", you'll constantly<br />
observe her body language and see if she's comfortable with your<br />
physical contact. To get started, here is a list of touching<br />
which ranges from LOW RISK all the way to HIGH RISK:<br />
<br />
--> Touching her arm (or vice versa)<br />
<br />
--> Touching her leg (or vice versa)<br />
<br />
--> Touching her medium risk areas (forearms, shoulders, knee,<br />
or wrist)<br />
<br />
--> Holding her hand<br />
<br />
--> Putting your arms around her (or vice versa)<br />
<br />
--> Having her sit on your lap<br />
<br />
--> Touching her intimate areas like her face, chest, neck and<br />
inner thighs<br />
<br />
Now there is something important thing to remember about "The<br />
Touching Progression Model". Your goal is to go from an initial<br />
conversation to KISSING her. <br />
<br />
If done correctly, you can use it easily transition into sex. So<br />
you must take any with a woman interaction through these steps<br />
and ensure that she's comfortable with each escalation point. <br />
<br />
To really ramp up your touching, you should implement the "Two<br />
steps forward, one step back" rule. <br />
<br />
This means you should constantly advance your physical contact,<br />
but also pull back before she's uncomfortable. Just remember to<br />
be the first to break contact. If she doesn't like your arm<br />
around you, then COMPLETELY break contact. What usually happens<br />
is the girl enjoys your physical contact. When you end it on<br />
YOUR terms, she'll try to find a way to get you to reinitiate<br />
the touching.<br />
<br />
Now the big question is this: <br />
<br />
Should you touch her or should you get her to touch you?<br />
<br />
Well the answer is pretty simple. ALWAYS make it seem like she's<br />
the one who is initiating the physical contact. A way you can do<br />
this is to take her hand and put it on YOUR arm. <br />
<br />
By making it seem like she's the one to initiate contact, you'll<br />
reduce her nervousness and let her know that she's in complete<br />
control of the physical escalation. <br />
<br />
Another thing to remember about physical escalation is keep you<br />
have to keep it active. When you're touching her, you want to make<br />
it lively not stale. For instance, if you're holding her hands,<br />
then you could lightly run your fingers along her hands in<br />
playful manner.<br />
<br />
Initiating physical contact is the gateway between a conversation<br />
and sex. If you want to be intimate with a woman, then you have<br />
to know to make her turned on JUST from your touch. <br />
<br />
If you follow the physical escalation model that I talked about,<br />
then you'll discover it's easy to move things quickly towards<br />
intimacy.<br />
<br />
Remember touching a woman is the FIRST indicator of what<br />
you'll be like in the bedroom. So make sure you're doing it<br />
RIGHT!<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
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<br />
<br />
Everyday i recieve dozens of Emails,containing the same question.<br />
So instead of sending out four different emails, let me cover<br />
FOUR of the most common questions that I receive from readers<br />
just like you.<br />
<br />
Hopefully this will clear up any doubts that you might have<br />
about your own unique situation...<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
Problem-1:-Do I have to be good looking to attract different women?<br />
<br />
<br />
This is probably the most common question I get!<br />
<br />
The fear of not being "good enough" is a feeling that a lot of<br />
men have!<br />
<br />
While they secretly hope to attract that 'hot thing' from across<br />
the room, many guys feel like they're not good looking enough to<br />
really make her interested.<br />
<br />
Even though each guy has his own problem area, this fear is<br />
a universal issue that has impacted the lives of countless men.<br />
<br />
But each one has his own "sticking point" when it comes to<br />
some aspect of his appearance. This can include feelings of<br />
being:<br />
<br />
* Too Old<br />
* Too Fat<br />
* Too Skinny<br />
* Too Poor<br />
* Too Ugly<br />
<br />
Now let's be perfectly HONEST here...Good looks can HELP you<br />
succeed with women. BUT, it is NOT the only factor that affects<br />
a woman's level of attraction!<br />
<br />
The psychology of women is a tricky thing. While you MIGHT<br />
think they go for only good-looking guys, MOST are attracted<br />
to the men who make them FEEL GOOD about themselves.<br />
<br />
And this has NOTHING to do with looks!<br />
<br />
So even if you're NOT happy with your appearance, there is STILL<br />
a system which can help you attract different women.<br />
<br />
Basically any excuse YOU HAVE about not being good looking is<br />
just that - AN EXCUSE!<br />
<br />
If you believe in yourself and pay attention to the resources I<br />
provide, you'll develop the proper techniques to attract ANY<br />
woman, regardless of your appearance!<br />
<br />
<br />
Problem-2:- Isn't It More Natural to Wait Till True Love Finds Me?<br />
<br />
<br />
Another question I Often receive is from men who feel fate will<br />
decide when they'll meet the woman of their dreams.<br />
<br />
Unfortunately fate will almost NEVER bring a great woman to you!<br />
<br />
Here's a scenario that can help illustrate my point:<br />
<br />
<br />
==<br />
<br />
You're hanging out in a restaurent with your friends, having a<br />
few drinks and some laughs.<br />
<br />
Suddenly you look across the room and there she is...<br />
<br />
THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS!<br />
<br />
Not only is she beautiful, but she also has a special quality<br />
that you've never had before.<br />
<br />
Perhaps this is even LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!<br />
<br />
Unfortunately, you're nervous and unsure of what to say.<br />
<br />
In the best case scenario, you muster up a bit of courage, walk<br />
over and use some lame pick-up line you heard from your buddies.<br />
<br />
She then gets disgusted and turns her back on you, virtually<br />
shutting you out from her world.<br />
<br />
Now this is the best case scenario.<br />
<br />
Another thing that could happen is you sit there thinking of<br />
every smooth line you could possibly say to her. In fact,<br />
you spend HOURS trying to figure out the best way to approach<br />
her.<br />
<br />
Before you get enough "liquid courage" to talk to her, another<br />
guy walks up to her. He strikes up a conversation with her<br />
and the two of them are suddenly best of friends.<br />
<br />
Your hesitation and fear has ruined any chance of meeting this<br />
amazing woman. Now some other Asshole is sitting there talking<br />
to her.<br />
<br />
==<br />
<br />
Pretty crappy story, right?<br />
<br />
The point was to illustrate how you might make up some excuse<br />
about meeting someone when FATE allows it to happen.<br />
<br />
But the truth is even if you're randomly put in a situation where<br />
you could meet the woman of your dreams, you might clam up and not<br />
know what to say.<br />
<br />
By implementing the techniques I describe in this email list,<br />
you'll be prepared to take action whenever you see a woman you<br />
find interesting.<br />
<br />
So while we all want to believe in fate and how it'll bring us<br />
that perfect woman, the reality is this...<br />
<br />
LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT!<br />
<br />
Fate won't bring you women. However, knowing what to and TAKING<br />
ACTION will help you create your own destiny!<br />
<br />
<br />
Problem-3:- Does this stuff teach me to manipulate women?<br />
<br />
<br />
This is a really good question!<br />
<br />
Now, I truly believe that the stuff I teach in my blogs and email<br />
list FOCUSES on teaching men the importance of finding the inner<br />
strength which lies within all of them.<br />
<br />
It is NOT about using and abusing women.<br />
<br />
But let me be honest here...<br />
<br />
We live in a world where women are actively pursued by guys. As<br />
a result, a lot of them have learned that men will do anything<br />
to attract their attention.<br />
<br />
The end result is many women have learned to turn dating into<br />
a sport. Some understand how to manipulate men to get what they<br />
want.<br />
<br />
And when they tired of one particular guy, they will quickly ditch<br />
him.<br />
<br />
Now this shouldn't make you angry. Instead, it should OPEN your<br />
eyes to the reality of the dating world.<br />
<br />
Sure, MOST women are just like you. They're trying simply<br />
trying to find the *right* guy. Unfortunately, since they<br />
get hit on ALL the time by men, they've developed subtle, yet<br />
effective tactics to WEED OUT the losers.<br />
<br />
My goal is to help you avoid becoming THAT GUY!<br />
<br />
What I'm trying to teach is how to build your confidence when<br />
meeting women. That means you meet a girl on EQUAL grounds.<br />
<br />
Instead of catering to her every desire, you'll learn how to<br />
stand up for yourself and converse with her in a attractive<br />
manner.<br />
<br />
AND...in no way do I want you to become a jerk or learn how to<br />
abuse women.<br />
<br />
Instead it's my hope that you take what you learn and be confident<br />
enough to approach women in ANY social situation.<br />
<br />
But ultimately it all comes down to your own personal viewpoint<br />
about women.<br />
<br />
If you're the type of guy who harbors a hatred towards females,<br />
then there is VERY LITTLE I can teach you.<br />
<br />
The point I am trying to make is it's important to learn about<br />
each woman you meet and find out what makes them great. Then you<br />
can create an engaging conversation with her which could lead to a<br />
more intimate encounter.<br />
<br />
<br />
Problem-4:-How Do I Get Started?<br />
<br />
<br />
Well hopefully by now you've had time to read through my free<br />
blog- "Tips to impress Indian girls".<br />
<br />
If you haven't, then you should start there!<br />
<br />
In fact, it's really important to read through the whole thing.<br />
<br />
After that, you can advance your education.<br />
<br />
So I urge you to get out there and take massive action!<br />
<br />
To your success with women,.<br />
<br />
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<br />
Contrary to what most women will tell you, flattery does not always get the results that you expect.<br />
<br />
A man constantly praising a woman he doesn't know, telling her she is stunning, sexy, exciting, clever, or just plain great will simply end up annoying her. His remarks will be regarded as flippant and her interest levels will drop dramatically.<br />
<br />
Why?<br />
<br />
Well, if you put yourself in the place of a beautiful woman, it is a bit easier to Lovely Woman understand.<br />
<br />
Someone who is approached endlessly each day by any number of guys all saying how gorgeous she is without even knowing her, ultimately will end up believing the compliment to be insincere and the guy to be unoriginal or boring, or both.<br />
<br />
Since you are neither of those, you need to take another approach.<br />
<br />
Naturally women do love to hear that they are pretty or sexy, but gushing compliments in the beginning only cheapens your efforts at a relationship, as she will believe that you are solely interested in physical beauty and/or having sex with her.<br />
<br />
Although this may be true initially, it is an immediate turn-off for women.<br />
<br />
In addition, by frequently complimenting a woman, you will empower her and psychologically will give her a "hold" over you, allowing her to think that she can turn you away anytime she likes, and that you need her more than she needs you.<br />
<br />
For two people to date and continue dating, they both need to feel that they are on an equal par, socially. In this respect, excessive compliments and praise from you detracts from your status and adds to hers resulting in an uneven standing for you both.<br />
<br />
Now I don't want to imply that you not flatter a woman at all. Subtle compliments in the beginning - to get her attention - are very effective, as is the timing of such compliments.<br />
<br />
Saying "I love what you've done with your hair" on the first date is much less likely to be believed as your date will consider it to be "a line".<br />
<br />
<br />
However, the same compliment said two weeks later can be interpreted very differently as your date will think that you have taken note of her hair before she changed it, noticed that she changed it, and liked what she did after she changed it.<br />
<br />
The result will be a genuine smile of appreciation, which will undoubtedly take you one step further in a relationship with her.<br />
<br />
Much better, wouldn't you say, than her breathing a sigh, rolling her eyes, and turning you down?<br />
<br />
<br />
The thing to think about when you hesitate in approaching a woman...<br />
<br />
...is to compare between the risk and reward.<br />
<br />
When you talk to a woman, either she likes you, or she doesn't. So, you technically have got 50% chance. So, you will have at least 1 in 2 probability of success.<br />
<br />
Which is high!<br />
<br />
If you instead do nothing, your chances are NIL.<br />
<br />
So, go for it as you have got absolutely nothing to lose. What's the absolute worst thing that can happen?<br />
<br />
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long trip to Agra and New Delhi. I was dog tired and<br />
need of some sleep. So naturally I made the smart decision and<br />
went out with a few friends to a local club.<br />
<br />
After a few approaches, I got into a conversation with a girl<br />
I'll call Priya. At first, I was interested in Priya. She was<br />
a tall, willowy college girl from Mumbai. Definitely the kind<br />
I like.<br />
<br />
However after a few minutes, I quickly determined that she was<br />
showing all the classic signs of what my friends and I call a<br />
"Trainwreck".<br />
<br />
What's a trainwreck? Well this is a girl who fills her life with<br />
extremely poor life decisions. Typically this is someone who<br />
only lives for the moment and thinks nothing about the outcomes<br />
of her decisions.<br />
<br />
Like the name describes, a trainwreck is an accident waiting to<br />
happen. If you wait around long enough, things WILL come crashing<br />
down around her.<br />
<br />
You can usually spot a trainwreck by a number of qualities. For<br />
instance, she'll:<br />
<br />
~~> "Party" or go out to bars 4-5 times a week (Or get REALLY<br />
drunk every time she goes out)<br />
<br />
~~> Frequently use hard drugs like cocaine, speed, or Ecstasy<br />
<br />
~~> Rarely talk about long-term plans or goals<br />
<br />
~~> Need constant attention from many different guys<br />
<br />
~~> Have an overall "crazy-eyed" look about her<br />
<br />
Now the major problem with trainwrecks is they can be very<br />
attractive. A girl like this can bring a lot of excitement to<br />
your life. Unfortunately, she also provides a ton of chaos and<br />
drama.<br />
<br />
In the past, I used to be drawn to girls like Priya. Ones that<br />
were beautiful, and promised that hint of excitement. But<br />
during the last year, I've learned a VERY valuable lesson about<br />
a trainwreck...<br />
<br />
YOU CAN'T FIX THEM!<br />
<br />
A trainwreck can be fun to be around. What's unfortunate is your<br />
average guy will date a girl like this, expecting that she'll<br />
magically change her self-destructive ways. And after weeks<br />
(even months) of trying to fix her, his life will suffer.<br />
<br />
Now if you're NOT looking for a girlfriend or anything<br />
permanent, then you probably date a trainwreck without TOO<br />
much drama.<br />
<br />
However, it's important to keep things in perspective. Remember<br />
that she's basically looking for a good time and isn't in the<br />
market for a serious relationship. Furthermore, she's probably<br />
hanging around a LOT of other guys. So don't make the mistake<br />
of thinking of she's "the one." Have fun with her, but don't<br />
lose perspective.<br />
<br />
On the other hand, let's say you're a guy who only wants quality<br />
women. IF you encounter a trainwreck, I have a simple piece of<br />
advice...<br />
<br />
RUN!<br />
<br />
Don't make the mistake of getting involved with a girl like this.<br />
Sure she might be good-looking OR be a nice girl deep down OR<br />
promise that hint of excitement. If you have your shit<br />
together then a girl like this will only bring unnecessary drama<br />
into your life.<br />
<br />
To have true success with women, you want to surround yourself<br />
with women who can bring more to the table than just their looks.<br />
They should have qualities that can stimulate you on a number of<br />
levels. And part of having standards means you won't accept ANY<br />
behavior that damages your life.<br />
<br />
So when you find yourself in a conversation with a trainwreck,<br />
the best thing to do is to quickly excuse yourself. As they say,<br />
there are plenty of fish in the sea. In the long run, you'll be<br />
much happier if you only interact with women who bring positive<br />
things into YOUR life. <br />
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<br />
<br />
Being out of topics is actually a<br />
pretty common thing that happens to a lot of guys. You go on a<br />
few dates and then it seems like there is nothing more you can<br />
really talk about.<br />
<br />
But what you probably don't realize is there are a LOT of<br />
different conversation topics you can cover. The trick is to<br />
ONLY focus on the ones that'll increase the level of sexual<br />
tension.<br />
<br />
So in other words, NEVER talk about things that are boring<br />
OR focus on NEGATIVITY. The goal of first couple of dates is<br />
to make that physical/emotional connection.<br />
<br />
It's NOT about talking a girl's ear off with things that<br />
doesn't want to hear.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">So never-</span><br />
<br />
- Say anything negative about the people around you<br />
- Be rude or talk in an arrogant manner<br />
- Talk at length about past relationships which have failed<br />
- Focus on boring "interview topics" like jobs or schooling<br />
<br />
Now that you know which topics to avoid, let's move on...<br />
<br />
What you need to do here is create an atmosphere on this date<br />
which will increase the chemistry. The best way to do this is<br />
by talking about specific topics that she'll find interesting.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">And here are 8 different ways to do this:</span><br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">1. Tell Great Stories</span><br />
<br />
Learn how to tell 3-4 interesting stories that can be interjected<br />
into your conversation. These stories should portray you in an<br />
interesting and exciting manner while being funny at the same<br />
time! What I suggest is you sit down and craft a few stories<br />
from your life.<br />
<br />
Then practice these stories till you know them cold!<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">2. Focus on emotion</span><br />
<br />
<br />
There are numerous topics which women love to discuss.<br />
Generally, these are the focus on basic human emotions (i.e.:<br />
drama, conflict and romance)<br />
<br />
You can easily connect to the emotional side of her brain by<br />
discussing *charged* topics that include any of these topics.<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">3. Personality tests and other games</span><br />
<br />
<br />
The best way to be attractive towards women is to demonstrate<br />
higher value. Commonly this is done by demonstrating a skill<br />
or ability that most guys DON'T have.<br />
<br />
So if you have the time, I would urge you to read up on "cold<br />
reading" techniques.<br />
<br />
You can use these techniques to describe a woman's personality<br />
from limited knowledge you have of her. Even though you've<br />
been on a few dates, learning how to "cold read" is a quick way<br />
to build interest and attraction.<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">4. Talk about celebrities</span><br />
<br />
<br />
People (especially women) LOVE to talk about celebrities. So all<br />
you have to do pay attention to the different headlines in the<br />
tabloids. Then start talking about the shocking exploits of<br />
society's elite.<br />
<br />
Trust me, there is ALWAYS something going on in bollywood which<br />
can provide you with a great conversation piece.<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">5. Create an our world conspiracy</span><br />
<br />
<br />
While I think it's important to be a positive person,<br />
you can still have fun gossiping about the people around you.<br />
<br />
If you're stuck with stuff to talk about, you can resort to<br />
people watching and commenting about the groups situated around<br />
you.<br />
<br />
Doing this create an "our world" mentality where you're having<br />
fun playing guessing games about other folks.<br />
<br />
For instance you can watch other couples on the date and<br />
determine if they're going to make it.<br />
<br />
Another example is to spot a big group of people, you can play a<br />
game and try to figure out who is the "Alpha Male/Female".<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">6. Talk about your dreams and aspirations</span><br />
<br />
<br />
A great topic of conversation is talking about the different<br />
things you want to achieve in your lifetimes.<br />
<br />
When you talk about things like this, you're making a connection<br />
to a positive emotion. As a result, you'll discover it's easy to<br />
piggyback on these emotions and build attraction<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">7. Use past topics</span><br />
<br />
<br />
During past dates with other women, you've probably had<br />
incredible conversations around specific topics.<br />
<br />
The truth is these conversations worked for a reason...<br />
<br />
They were INTERESTING!<br />
<br />
Since you've recently started to date this woman, you've probably<br />
haven't talked about a lot of things. So you can easily use<br />
conversation topics which you have worked on other women.<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">8. Keep up with current events</span><br />
<br />
<br />
Topics of conversation are happening in the world right NOW!<br />
<br />
Since the planet is a big place, you can easily find interesting<br />
topics to discuss! All you have to do is listen to the news each<br />
day and you'll have plenty to talk about.<br />
<br />
Just remember to stay away from polarizing topics like war,<br />
religion or politics.<br />
<br />
Well as you can see, there are lots of things you can discuss on<br />
your date. If you take the time to do a little preparing, you'll<br />
discover that it's actually quite simple create an engaging<br />
conversation which will quickly build attraction.<br />
<br />
<br />
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<br />
<br />
Am a regular reader of your blog and am really got a huge help from your blogs in my love life.But I really want to tell you a storywhich happened<br />
<br />
Last Friday I went out with some buddies and the whole place was bursting with hot female models. My first thought was 'bring it on', as I thought of the many possibilities of being in a room full of tens.<br />
<br />
Me and the rest of the guys went our separate ways to cover more ground, and I managed to get at least two phone numbers. Things were really going well, and it was crazy, but something weird happened.<br />
<br />
One of the women I approached asked about my age and I said 20. She's 25. After that conversation about age, she started talking to me in an extremely polite manner, which was a far cry from the way she was talking to me before we got around to talking about age.<br />
<br />
She was flirting like hell until that point. What gives?<br />
<br />
I don't know exactly if it's her body language, or the tone of her voice, but I got the vibe that she was very civil with me.<br />
<br />
Worst of all, I got the feeling that she's 'sitting it out' until I got tired of talking to her so she can finally talk to other people. It seemed as if she tolerated my convo because she’s a nice girl who couldn’t diss a guy rudely.<br />
<br />
I picked up on her sudden change of mood and with the proverbial tail between my legs, went back to the buddies. It wasn’t a bad thing, I suppose, because there were many more women in the vicinity, but still, it seemed strange.<br />
<br />
Now on to my main question:<br />
<br />
In general how can a guy get around the age-related bias and make a girl think you’re fun, adventurous and worldly? To phrase it more succinctly, how can a guy make a woman switch off the “you’re too young for me” mindset?<br />
<br />
I like dating older women, and my experience with girls a few years older than me has been great so far, but this was the first time I’ve encountered a girl who made me feel like age should be an issue.<br />
<br />
If I meet a girl who thinks like this again, should I just lie and say I’m older than my actual age?<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
SOLUTION of the problem<br />
<br />
<br />
Getting judged because of your age or age group is a nightmare, I can tell you from experience.<br />
<br />
Most of the time, women dig you and banter with you comfortably until they start guessing your age (or you tell them yourself).<br />
<br />
To illustrate this dilemma, imagine a young guy who can open conversations with women like a dream.<br />
<br />
He can start a sexually-charged discourse with any woman and get her lusting for him. Think eye-to-eye contact, visible heart bubbles over her head… she’s quite ready to give in anytime, until he opens his mouth and tells her his real age...<br />
<br />
...and BOOM!<br />
<br />
Her hot loins freeze over, her heart turns black, her flirty glances turn serious, and she looks at you like she just saw you.<br />
<br />
As you talk to her, she puts on a quizzical look and asks the question that’s burning in her brain right at that moment… “How old are you?”<br />
<br />
Talk about getting hit where it hurts most. Believe me, I’ve felt this same feeling many times in the past whenever a girl busts my ego by telling me I’m too young, not old enough, or too adolescent for her to date.<br />
<br />
From that moment on, you can expect her to say something like “Um… yeah… well, I don’t date guys your age”, “you’re cute like my little brother”, “you remind me of my eldest son”, or “I really don’t date younger guys”.<br />
<br />
Now, what’s a guy to do if faced with this scenario? Do you just sit there and take it? Do not wait for your ego to return to its normal size.<br />
<br />
Instead, do something to bounce the criticism back at her so she will know never to judge a virile guy by his age alone in the future (and of course, to turn the situation around to your benefit).<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
Although most mails I receive regarding the age issue come from women complaining how this or that guy is way older, this questions really made me smile because I got to go back to the way I was treated by older women in the past as soon as they learned how much younger I was compared to their age.<br />
<br />
Women then always made me feel inferior by acting haughty about their experience. For some reason age equates experience to most women, and when they find out you’re way younger, they would automatically assume you don’t have what it takes for them to date.<br />
<br />
No woman wants to babysit, I can tell you that much. But sometimes, there are women who simply dislike dating younger men, just because. No reason given, and no apologies issued. This tendency to get busted like this for being ‘too young’ is painful at the very least.<br />
<br />
Now that I’m older, I’ve had to deal with this from the other end of the spectrum. Suddenly, some girls are thinking I’m too old for them to date!<br />
<br />
It’s funny how things turn out, but the best part of being a part of this whole age shenanigan is getting to know some methods to make her think of you differently regardless of her age-bias and regardless of your age.<br />
<br />
I’m going to show you how to turn the situation around … and make her feel attracted instead of turned off in as little as 30 seconds.<br />
<br />
Here’s how you start to turn it around...<br />
<br />
<br />
How to handle 'tricky' situations regarding age...<br />
<br />
Don’t get me wrong, I personally like older women, and I think the maturity they have is attractive.<br />
<br />
But if push comes to shove and a woman tries to make me feel inferior to her because of my age, I won’t hesitate to flip things around to get her turned on.<br />
<br />
Albeit, that’s not the way our culture is set up. For females, their age and looks are fused together. You can tease a girl about her age when she starts giving you the snotty about how young you are.<br />
<br />
Do it like the cosmetics marketers do… push her age-looks pain button and it won’t matter if she’s just a year older than you. She will undoubtedly feel the sting of your flippant remarks, and start reacting.<br />
<br />
When she goes on her ‘reactive phase’, you know what that means right? You can push some more buttons to immediately generate attraction and get her coming home with you.<br />
<br />
If she notices that the age comment affected you in any way, she will think she’s the prize and you should prove yourself to her before she flirts with you again.<br />
<br />
Instead of falling for it, do this: throw a neg about her age and see her whole confidence crumble. Tease her lightly with words that clearly say you think her regard for your age is foolish. Here’s an example:<br />
<br />
Her: “You’re way too young for me. Come back when you’re older”<br />
<br />
Me: “You’re absolutely right. You’re way older than me. You’re past your prime in ‘girly years’. “<br />
<br />
If she asks about that remark or if she looks shocked, educate her further by saying, “a girl’s age peaks at 18. That’s when her modeling career takes off. If she’s lucky, it stays good until she’s 25. You at 25 is basically a senior citizen amongst hot women.”<br />
<br />
Are you catching my drift? :)<br />
<br />
She will probably laugh in recognition of a rebuke, and that’s when you can really get her.<br />
<br />
This tactic works like gangbusters, and here's why...<br />
<br />
First of all, she sees you in a new light. You’re the impertinent man of the world who dared challenge her ego so you must be something else.<br />
<br />
Another thing, even if you told her she’s way old in your eyes, you still gave her a compliment somehow (by pitting her against hot young girls aged 18-25)… but still, you made her uneasy and she feels provoked.<br />
<br />
When you get her in this state, you have her where you want her. You will have her thinking of ways to prove herself to you.<br />
<br />
The combination of indignant reaction, heightened senses, emotional discomfort and fuming gives rise to an emotion women interpret as ‘attraction.’ Believe it!<br />
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Attraction, Get A Date, Turn Her On To Where She Is Dying To Meet<br />
You And More... All Through Text Messaging...<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
Normally I don't reveal personal details about my life. But<br />
I thought you might appreciate this...<br />
<br />
A few weeks back, I was chilling with my buddies before going<br />
out to a local bar.<br />
<br />
And like guys do, we get to talking about our favorite<br />
subject- WOMEN.<br />
<br />
Each of us mentioned the different girls we're dating and I<br />
felt a childish need to top them (Hey, I'm only human)<br />
<br />
So I pulled out my cell phone and showed a few<br />
pics I received from this one girl through text messaging.<br />
(For the sake of privacy, we'll call her 'abc')<br />
<br />
And of course, my friends wanted to know more about abc.<br />
<br />
What really shocked them was when I told my friends that I<br />
never met OR had a phone conversation with this girl.<br />
<br />
In fact, the only contact I had with her was one orkut<br />
message and a dozen text messages.<br />
<br />
Naturally my friends wondered how I could get a girl to send<br />
pictures of herself when she never met me!<br />
<br />
What's even better is I met up with abc about a week after<br />
this conversation.<br />
<br />
I didn't really plan out an activity. In fact, I happened to<br />
be in the area with my buddy Rahul and was actually pretty<br />
drunk.<br />
<br />
but I knew she lived nearby so I sent her a quick sms<br />
and asked if she wanted to join us.<br />
<br />
And even though I was retardedly drunk, and had zero game, it<br />
took only about an hour of in-person conversation to get<br />
her into bed!<br />
<br />
Let me say that again...<br />
<br />
I had sex with abc after only 1 hour of conversation.<br />
<br />
Now I'm telling because I want to brag. In fact, I work really<br />
hard to NOT discuss my personal life with people.<br />
<br />
But I think there's a really important lesson to be learned<br />
here...<br />
<br />
SMSING should be a major tool to use when you're<br />
meeting women.<br />
<br />
Unless you've lived in a cave for the last couple of years,<br />
you're probably familiar with SMSs.<br />
<br />
<br />
They're widely used because they're incredably useful for<br />
when you just want to ask a quick question or send a<br />
brief message.<br />
<br />
What's interesting is women love SMSing!<br />
<br />
If you've watch women, you'll notice how much many<br />
SMSs they send. In fact, I think this form of technology<br />
is rapidly replacing phone conversations.<br />
<br />
So when you SMS a girl the RIGHT way, you can<br />
quickly build enough attraction that you won't have to do<br />
much in-person game when you see her next.<br />
<br />
but there's one major problem here...<br />
<br />
Most of the guys I know totally screw-up their SMSs.<br />
<br />
They SMS the way we men typically have conversations. When<br />
talking to one another, we like to think logically and make<br />
plans. This means are SMSs are usually straight to the point.<br />
<br />
Women on the other hand, view SMSing as a way to get to<br />
know one another. They use it to describe their problems and<br />
stay in touch with people in their lives.<br />
<br />
It's important to remember this rule when SMSing!<br />
<br />
The way I use text messaging is to build sexual tension.<br />
<br />
Before each SMS I send, I think carefully about how<br />
this message will advance the interaction I'm having with<br />
a particular girl.<br />
<br />
Whether I'm teasing her, sending "comfort" messages or making<br />
plans, my SMSs are specifically designed to create a strong<br />
emotion in the girl who is receiving them!<br />
<br />
And from the above example, you can see that there is<br />
a TON of power behind sending a well-written SMS.<br />
<br />
With that being said, I'm actually really surprised at the<br />
lack of information about sending text messages to women.<br />
<br />
While I know many guys use them, not much has been written on<br />
the subject! So for the last 5 months, I've had to create<br />
my own system for SMSing.<br />
<br />
And the results were INCREDIBLE!<br />
<br />
For instance, I tested his techniques on a "dead number".<br />
(A girlwho I called a few times, but could never get on<br />
the phone).<br />
<br />
After sending her a few SMSs, I was able to create a<br />
ton of sexual tension. And tonight I'm going to meet<br />
her for a coffee.<br />
<br />
From the enthusiastic responses she's sent over SMSing,<br />
I'm pretty sure I'm about to have a very<br />
enjoyable evening.<br />
<br />
CIA.................<br />
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fear of rejection. And once you eliminate this anxiety, it<br />
becomes easy to approach women with confidence.<br />
<br />
The problem is there are a number of additional roadblocks that<br />
men have when it comes to approaching. Unfortunately these are<br />
typically self inflicted. Your average man makes a number of<br />
little (but important) mistakes which prevent him from having<br />
true success with women.<br />
<br />
<br />
The good news is these mistakes can be prevented. The trick is<br />
to recognize when you're making them.And then actively work on<br />
eliminating them!<br />
<br />
So today I want to review six of what I call "approaching<br />
mistakes" and then talk about what you can to make sure that you<br />
are not making them:<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">#1- Negative Self-talk </span><br />
<br />
The actions you take are the direct result of the words you say<br />
to yourself. In other words, if you keep think you're going to<br />
fail then that's what'll probably happen!<br />
<br />
In this case, negative self-talk are the words you think right<br />
before you approach a girl. For instance, they typically sound<br />
like this:<br />
<br />
>>>> "She's surrounded by all those guys and won't be interested<br />
in me."<br />
<br />
>>>> "I'm not good-looking enough to attract her interest."<br />
<br />
>>>> "I don't know what to say."<br />
<br />
>>>> "There's no way she would be interested in me."<br />
<br />
>>>> "I'm too scared to start talking to her."<br />
<br />
Negative self-talk varies from guy to guy. However the common<br />
element of these thoughts is they cause you to dwell on what<br />
could go wrong instead of what could go right. Instead of<br />
enjoying the conversation you're consumed by powerful, negative<br />
thoughts which often pralyze you into not approaching.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">WHAT'S THE SOLUTION???</span><br />
<br />
The first step is to pay close attention to the words you're<br />
telling yourself right before you approach. Explore what you're<br />
saying and the feelings that these statements create within you.<br />
<br />
Next, you'll want to take these statements and directly challenge<br />
them. The best way to do this is to create a series of<br />
affirmation statements that you recite. These should be written<br />
in a positive tone that is the exact opposite of the negative<br />
self-talk that you usually do.<br />
<br />
For instance, if you constantly think: "I don't know what to say",<br />
you'll want to create an affirmation that sounds like:<br />
<br />
"I have a lot to talk about whenever I'm in a conversation with a<br />
woman!"<br />
<br />
To make this solution work, you'll want to create an affirmation<br />
for each of the negative statements you think before you approach<br />
women. Then recite them at least 2 to 3 times a day.<br />
<br />
#2- Outcome Orientation<br />
<br />
"Outcome Orientation" happens<br />
when you worry too much about what could happen instead of living<br />
in the moment and simply enjoying your conversations with women.<br />
<br />
This is initially caused when you develop the habit of putting a<br />
woman on a pedestal and thinking that she's perfect for you.<br />
This often causes you to live in an imaginary world where you're<br />
afraid to lose what you have. In other words, you rather be in<br />
a safe place where you can imagine what it's like to be with<br />
this girl, then run the risk of rejection.<br />
<br />
Another form of Outcome Orientation happens when you're worried<br />
about the negative outcomes of your approach. This is where<br />
you dwell on things like getting rejected or being socially<br />
ridiculed. Typically this causes you to act too preoccupied with <br />
what could happen instead of being the cool, relaxed guy that<br />
women find attractive in men.<br />
<br />
Both of these Outcome Orientation situations cause major problems<br />
for guys. Women are pretty intuitive. And they can usually tell<br />
when a man cares TOO much about the results of the conversation.<br />
When you make this mistake, you'll come across as too desperate.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">WHAT'S THE SOLUTION???</span><br />
<br />
Remove all expectations.<br />
<br />
As you've learned, caring too much about the outcome will cause<br />
you to exude a needy, low-status vibe. Instead, replace your<br />
Outcome Orientation with a mindset where you consider yourself as<br />
the selector over being the selectee<br />
<br />
This is another time when you can use affirmation statements to<br />
create a powerful, confident mindset. To get started, I<br />
recommend you write the following on a piece of paper:<br />
<br />
"I am going to talk to this girl and see if I like her. It's<br />
just a conversation. Nothing more. Maybe if she's interested,<br />
I will consider asking for her number"<br />
<br />
Write down a variation of this statement. In other words, make<br />
it personal to you and something that you feel comfortable<br />
reciting on a daily basis. And once you have this statement---<br />
memorize it! Then recite it to yourself before you approach any<br />
girl.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">#3- Hesitation</span><br />
<br />
When you spot an attractive girl, it's VERY easy to become<br />
paralyzed into inaction. This happens when you worry about the<br />
RIGHT way to start a conversation. You want to impress her from<br />
the moment you approach and you're trying to come up with that<br />
ONE magical line that'll hypnotically attract her.<br />
<br />
I like to call this the "perfect line fallacy". You're SO<br />
preoccupied with thinking about HOW to start the conversation<br />
that you allow minutes (and even hours) to pass BEFORE you work<br />
up the courage to approach.<br />
<br />
But it all boils down HESITATION. Trying to come up with the<br />
"perfect" line is a subconscious way that a lot of men lie to<br />
themselves. It's an excuse that some come up with to avoid the<br />
possibility of rejection. The problem with excuses is even the<br />
best ones are STILL excuses!<br />
<br />
And as we've discussed women are extremely intuitive. So if<br />
you're in a room with a girl, and hesitate on approaching her,<br />
then she's probably picking up your vibe. This causes you to be<br />
placed in the "low-status" category because she already knows<br />
you're too scared to approach to approach her.<br />
<br />
Hopefully you can see how hesitation is a HUGE mistake that could<br />
could COMPLETELY destroy your chances with a particular girl.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">WHAT'S THE SOLUTION???</span><br />
<br />
The solution is simple..."Approach without Hesitation"<br />
<br />
This is where you allow yourself a few seconds to think of what<br />
to say, then immidiately take action. While you might not have<br />
the perfect line, you'll at least project a confident vibe<br />
where you're starting a conversation.<br />
<br />
So don't worry so much about what to say. Just go up and talk.<br />
<br />
The best is when you do this enough times, you'll train yourself<br />
to live in the moment and not obsess over saying the "perfect<br />
line". Furthermore your approaches will seem more natural<br />
because whatever you say won't seem canned or rehearsed. Instead<br />
you'll project a confident, cool vibe!<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">#4- Making Excuses </span><br />
<br />
This a self-destructive form of negative self-talk. When you<br />
make excuses about your life, it becomes TOO easy to avoid<br />
creating ANY sort of positive change in your life.<br />
<br />
Now we've ALL made excuses at some point in our lives. The<br />
difference is doing this on a DAILY basis. For instance...say<br />
you spot an attractive girl, a common excuse occurs when you<br />
give yourself a reason for WHY you CAN'T approach her. Stuff<br />
like...<br />
<br />
"She's surrounded by other guys"<br />
<br />
or<br />
<br />
"I'm just not in the mood"<br />
<br />
To be brutally honest, the "Excuses Habit" is the direct result<br />
of the way you've learned how to handle adversity. Like one of<br />
Pavlov's Dogs, you've been trained to take a specific action when<br />
you want to approach a girl. This usually means you've developed<br />
the habit of creating a reason WHY you can't approach whenever<br />
you experience anxious feelings.<br />
<br />
Pretty crazy, right?<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">WHAT'S THE SOLUTION???</span><br />
<br />
One of the most DEADLIEST words in the English language is<br />
"Can't!" Using this word on a daily basis SEVERLY limits what<br />
you can accomplish in your life. And in regards to women, using<br />
this word prevents from talking to the girls that you TRULY<br />
desire.<br />
<br />
Instead of dwelling on the reasons why you can't talk to a girl,<br />
it's important to develop a "problem-solving" mindset. So if you<br />
find yourself consistently encountering the SAME obstacle, then<br />
it's time to figure out "HOW" you can overcome this problem.<br />
<br />
One technique that works for me is to keep a daily journal of<br />
your life. Specifically you can use this journal to track EVERY<br />
approach that you make and the results. Over time, you'll start<br />
to see a pattern of your approaches.<br />
<br />
And when you find yourself making the same excuse, then you know<br />
that you're encountering what's commonly known as a "sticking<br />
point". Now instead you "CAN'T" do something because of this<br />
obstacle, actively work on finding a SOLUTION to this problem.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">#5- Anger Issues</span><br />
<br />
This is problem that I see on a consistent basis. The sad fact<br />
is there are a number of men who secretly harbor a strong sense<br />
of "entitlement" when it comes to women.<br />
<br />
A guy like this lives life in anger because he's not getting what<br />
he feels he *deserves* from women. And if he sees a woman<br />
dressing provocatively, then that somehow gives him the *right*<br />
to treat her in a demeaning manner.<br />
<br />
Now as you've probably heard me mention before, I get a lot of<br />
email from readers and customers. And I've ALWAYS been surprised<br />
at the level of HOSTILITY that some men at women.<br />
<br />
In fact, if you pay close attention to some guys at bars & clubs,<br />
you'll find that a lot of them simply get ANGRY at a particular<br />
woman before even approaching her. They'll say (or think)<br />
things how she's probably a bitch, or a slut, or has an<br />
attitude. What's interesting is they'll say these things BEFORE<br />
even TRYING to talk to her.<br />
<br />
This kind of anger does NOTHING to help you with women. In<br />
fact, you'll end up displaying a VERY hostile vibe that's<br />
definitely not attractive to ANY woman.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">WHAT'S THE SOLUTION???</span><br />
<br />
I don't have to be Sigmund Freud to tell you that anger like this<br />
is the direct result of feelings of insecurity. Most of the<br />
time, it comes from WANTING a woman, but feeling unable to act<br />
upon this emotion. In a way, this anger is basically anger that<br />
comes from a form of self-loathing.<br />
<br />
Remember that YOU are responsible for YOUR success in life. If<br />
you're not good at something, then DO SOMETHING about it. Don't<br />
blame others for YOUR shortcomings.<br />
<br />
If you're angry at women, it's probably because you don't know<br />
the RIGHT way to attract their interest. It's up to you to<br />
improve on this area of your life. I guarantee that with the<br />
right mindset (and hard work), ANY guy can improve his success<br />
with women. <br />
<br />
Furthermore... One of the BEST indicators of success in life is<br />
WHO you choose to spend your time with. If you find yourself<br />
surrounded by guys who DWELL on negativity it becomes VERY easy<br />
to develop a hostile attitude towards women. Do yourself a favor<br />
and form friendships with people who have a positive outlook on<br />
life.<br />
<br />
As I said before, it's up to you to create the kind of life that<br />
you want. You'll find that being around positive people and<br />
developing your social skills can become the secret ingredient<br />
to becoming a naturally attractive guy around women.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">6- Believing in Luck Over Success</span><br />
<br />
You'll often hear guys use the phrase "I got lucky last night"<br />
when they have sex with a girl. I've always thought that this<br />
is an interesting expression. When you say something like this,<br />
it means that ANY success you have with women is the result of<br />
some sort of EXTERNAL force.<br />
<br />
Guys spend their "dating life" waiting for something happen.<br />
They make the mistake of believing that fate will bring them<br />
that special woman.<br />
<br />
Unfortunately this a VERY dangerous mistake to make. When you<br />
look to external factors like luck, you develop the attitude that<br />
you have NO control over the women you meet.<br />
<br />
It's important to shift your attitude and develop what I call a<br />
"success mindset". This is where you internalize the outcomes<br />
with women and understand that YOU are in complete control of<br />
the interaction. If something doesn't go right, it wasn't BAD<br />
LUCK, it was probably due to a mistake that YOU made.<br />
<br />
Now this doesn't mean you should beat yourself for every<br />
failed approach. Instead it means that you learn from each<br />
experience and use this information to improve yourself.<br />
<br />
WHAT'S THE SOLUTION???<br />
<br />
The solution to your problem is simple. You HAVE to shift your<br />
mindset from an EXTERNAL mindset to an INTERNAL one. In other<br />
words, STOP making excuses about WHY you're not having any *luck*<br />
with women. Realize that the results you're getting are due to<br />
mistakes you're making.<br />
<br />
Understand that YOU control the outcome of your life. Don't<br />
think of yourself as lucky. Create the mindset that you CAN do<br />
what ever you set out to do. Including increasing the success<br />
that you have when you approach women.<br />
<br />
So if girls are not responding to your attempts at starting a<br />
conversation, ask yourself WHAT you're doing that's causing this<br />
problem. You'll find yourself that this simple exercise will<br />
help you quickly discover a solution.<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
WELL there you have it... SIX of the most common mistakes that I<br />
feel guys make when it comes to approaching women.<br />
<br />
I'm not saying that you have ALL of these problems. Instead I<br />
feel it's important to recognize if ANY of these mistakes sound<br />
like you. That way, you can IMMEDIATELY take a corrective action<br />
and overcome this obstacle.<br />
<span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span>
<ul class="posts">
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/tipas-to-impress-indian-girls.html">9 Steps to turn a friend into girlfriend</a></li>
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/5-ways-to-improve-your-sexual.html">5 ways to improve your sexual confidence</a></li>
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/talking-and-voice-tactics-with-girls.html">Talking and Voice Tactics with Girls</a></li>
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/mistakes-done-by-boys-when-talking-to.html">mistakes done by boys when talking to girls</a></li>
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-to-talk-to-girls.html">How to talk to girls</a></li>
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/tipas-to-impress-indian-girls.html">Tips to impress Indian girls</a></li>
<li><a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com/2009/09/tips-to-improve-personality-and-self.html">Tips to improve personality and self confidence</a></li>
</ul>
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has taken control over your thoughts<br />
.She is attractive, interesting and<br />
everything youwant in a woman. In<br />
fact, you can't stop thinking of her.<br />
<br />
But, there is a major problem...<br />
<br />
She likes you only as a FRIEND.<br />
<br />
Sounds familiar right? Well this<br />
happens all the time to guys.They<br />
meet a great woman, but somehow<br />
end up in being thought of as just<br />
as a friend.<br />
<br />
Well to be honest, it's actually quite<br />
difficult to go from being a friend to<br />
making things more intimate. The<br />
major problem is women simply<br />
don't view their male friends as<br />
romantic partners.<br />
<br />
In order to make a woman see you in<br />
an intimate manner, you have to take<br />
drastic measures!<br />
<br />
In this blog, I'm to cover my 9 step to<br />
overcome this problem. While it<br />
might not work all the time, it'll be<br />
your best bet for landing that one<br />
special girl in your life.<br />
<br />
Let's get started...<br />
<br />
<br />
1- Never admit your true feelings<br />
<br />
Hopefully before you've read this<br />
article, you haven't made your true<br />
feelings known to this girl. When<br />
you tell a woman that "you like<br />
her" it immediately puts her on<br />
guard and makes her nervous around<br />
you. And when this happens, it'll<br />
make it hard to make things<br />
romantic with her.<br />
<br />
Now if you've already admitted<br />
your feelings or have asked her on<br />
a date, then you have to do a<br />
little back peddling.<br />
<br />
Before you continue with the rest<br />
of this plan, you must convince her<br />
that you only think of her as a friend.<br />
Typically the best way to do this is<br />
to emphasize the next two steps...<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 2- Don't let her control your life<br />
<br />
The problem with being like Friends<br />
is you've let this girl grow too<br />
comfortable with you. During this<br />
time she has gotten used to you being<br />
ready to please her and cater to her<br />
needs. Since she knows you're her<br />
emotional doormat, she'll never<br />
view you as a "sexual person".<br />
<br />
The only way to get her to think of<br />
you as a potential dating partner is<br />
to make her view you as sexual<br />
person. To do this, you have to create<br />
and build sexual tension around her.<br />
<br />
Simply communicate that you're not<br />
going to be around for her and you'll<br />
be on your way to establishing brand<br />
new rules for your relationship.<br />
<br />
To escape from being friends, you<br />
need to communicate that you<br />
have other activities in your life<br />
which do not concern her.<br />
<br />
This means actively pursuing your<br />
hobbies and picking them over<br />
spending time with her. What you're<br />
trying to communicate is that you<br />
don't base your identity only on what<br />
she thinks of you.<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 3- Hang Out With other women<br />
<br />
In order to get things going with your<br />
female friend, you have to trigger her<br />
jealous reactions. An easy way to do this<br />
is discuss attractive girls and make<br />
comments about them whenever you're<br />
around your friend.<br />
<br />
This shows that you're a sexual guy who<br />
is not afraid to show what he likes in<br />
women. Also this shows that she has<br />
competition from other women.<br />
<br />
If you really want to ramp up her jealous<br />
nature, then I recommend you start dating<br />
different women. If you do this properly,<br />
she'll start to realize that she could be<br />
missing out on a guy who is attractive<br />
to many women.<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 4- Establish physical contact<br />
<br />
If you want her to think of you as a<br />
potential dating partner, you have to<br />
initiate a pattern of touching her.<br />
This means establishing physical contact<br />
whenever you're around her.<br />
<br />
Now when I talk about physical contact,<br />
I don't mean you should grope her.<br />
Instead you should act like a buddy who<br />
isn't afraid to touch her. This can include<br />
hugging her and playfully swatting her.<br />
<br />
THIS STEP is really important because<br />
you must get her comfortable with you<br />
touching her. The more you touch her,<br />
the more she'll slowly become receptive<br />
towards you becoming her dating partner.<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 5- Qualify her<br />
<br />
Becoming intimate with a woman can<br />
be easily accomplished by acting like a<br />
dominant male that she would want to<br />
date. By demonstrating a strong<br />
personality, your friend will realize<br />
that you are somebody who has high<br />
status. Thus you'll represent a guy<br />
who only wants women who can<br />
match your standards.<br />
<br />
The best ways to accomplish is to<br />
talk openly about your standards<br />
and what you want in your life<br />
from a woman. Simply tell her<br />
what you like certain things from<br />
women and how you're tired of girls<br />
not matching your expectations.<br />
<br />
The idea behind qualifying women<br />
is to create a candid conversation<br />
how you don't settle down with any<br />
average girl. As your discussion<br />
unfolds, she'll start to talk about<br />
what she wants from a boyfriend.<br />
<br />
What's funny is women have a tendency<br />
to qualify themselves with guys they know.<br />
So when you're talking about what you<br />
want from a woman, you'll probably<br />
see her talk about what "makes her<br />
different" from other girls.<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 6- Be a sexual guy<br />
<br />
In order to get intimate with your female<br />
friend, it's important that she think of you<br />
as a sexual guy. The simplest way to do this<br />
is to talk about sex when you're around her.<br />
<br />
This means making sexual innuendoes,<br />
talking about past partners, and teasing<br />
her in a flirtatious manner. The more<br />
you can bring sex in a conversation,<br />
the more she'll come back with her own<br />
suggestive comments.<br />
<br />
Your goal for this step is to create a<br />
consistent dialogue of sexual playfulness<br />
with your female friend. Once this<br />
happens,she'll start to regard you in<br />
a whole new light.<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 7- Anchor a sex story<br />
<br />
A way to really ramp things up is to<br />
talk about one of your past dating<br />
partners. Bring her up often and mention<br />
how incredible she was in the bedroom.<br />
<br />
Now here's where this story gets interesting...<br />
<br />
When you tell this story to your female<br />
friend, mention how you had a deep<br />
connection with this girl. One of the<br />
reasons was because this woman used<br />
to be your good friend. Since you and<br />
this girl were buddies, you had a deeper<br />
connection when things turned intimate.<br />
<br />
By telling your friend this story, you'll<br />
put a thought in her head that you can<br />
be a sexual guy to women. Furthermore,<br />
just by making things intimate, she'll<br />
become a recipient of a lot of sexual<br />
pleasure.<br />
<br />
<br />
Step 8-Make her wonder<br />
<br />
Once you've developed a pattern of<br />
acting like a sexual guy, you need to<br />
send her mixed signals about how<br />
you feel about her. If you've done<br />
the previous 7 steps correctly, then<br />
she'll probably wonder what it<br />
would be like to date you.<br />
<br />
What you want to do is send her<br />
conflicting signals that show that<br />
you're interested and not interested<br />
in her. One moment talk about<br />
how she's a great friend. Then you<br />
discuss the attributes of other women.<br />
<br />
At this point, you want to start to let<br />
her know that you're attracted to her.<br />
Now you can't come out and start<br />
saying you like her. Instead, you discuss<br />
things in a sexual yet funny way.<br />
<br />
For instance you can talk about a<br />
perfume she's wearing. Let her know<br />
that you really like the smell of it and<br />
you can't handle having her around,<br />
because you don't want to do<br />
"anything you'll regret later".<br />
<br />
By doing this, you'll let her know<br />
you think of her in a sexual manner,<br />
but you're also showing that you<br />
still control the entire interaction.<br />
<br />
<br />
9-Seal the deal<br />
<br />
<br />
Eventually you'll get to the point<br />
where you've become openly sexual<br />
and physically expressive with your<br />
friend. Primarily you'll be hugging<br />
and touching one another in a<br />
flirtatious manner.<br />
<br />
It will be during one of these hugs<br />
where you go to "seal the deal".<br />
During one of your hugs, stop and<br />
look her square in the eye. If she<br />
maintains a prolonged eye contact,<br />
that means she's ready to be kissed.<br />
<br />
Simply go for the kiss. Then you can<br />
let things unfold as they should.<br />
If you've followed these steps<br />
properly, then you'll discover that<br />
it's easy to quickly let things<br />
become intimate.<br />
<br />
Now I want to be honest with you...<br />
<br />
It isn't easy to escape from being friends.<br />
With certain women, if they think<br />
of you as a buddy, then you'll have no<br />
chance of success. So this system<br />
doesn't always work.<br />
<br />
But if you're serious about a specific<br />
woman in your life,then I think it's<br />
important to risk a friendship to see<br />
if you can make things intimate.<br />
Simply follow this 9 step plan and<br />
you'll definitely increase your chance<br />
of success!<br />
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<span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><hr /> <a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com">Tips to impress indian girls</a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1254958455058777316.post-64371464045609233262009-09-25T12:45:00.001+05:302013-01-19T09:20:40.158+05:305 ways to improve your sexual confidenceHow is your confidence in the bedroom?<br />
<br />
There's a reason why I ask this question. many guys lack <br />
confidence when it comes to pleasing their woman. And when<br />
you have low self-esteem in this area, you'll subconsciously<br />
turn her off.<br />
<br />
As a result, your low confidence can damage your dating<br />
life!<br />
<br />
The truth is a lot of guys feel a lack of sexual confidence<br />
around women. And when you're unsure about what satisfies a<br />
woman, you'll end up projecting a nervous attitude towards<br />
sex.<br />
<br />
But while lots of guys experience some form of anxiety you cant<br />
let this affect your overall performance.<br />
<br />
So it's important to understand what pleases women and then<br />
do it !<br />
<br />
Only then will you be able to display an unstoppable amount<br />
of sexual confidence.<br />
<br />
Now if you're like some guys, then you can easily improve your<br />
success with women by making a dramatic change to your sexual<br />
confidence.<br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">And here are 5 ways you can do it:</span></span><br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Tip #1- Maintain a relaxed attitude</span><br />
<br />
One of the ways that men damage their confidence is by<br />
getting all anxious before they "do the deed".<br />
<br />
Acting this way, makes you project an aura of nervousness<br />
that can make her "turned off" by your low self-esteem.<br />
<br />
Rather than getting anxious about sex, you should remind<br />
yourself that it's a completely normal part of a relationship.<br />
Even if something bad happens, roll with the punches and<br />
maintain composure.<br />
<br />
In other words, stay relaxed!<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Tip #2- Understand sexuality</span><br />
<br />
One of the best ways to become a sexually confident guy is to<br />
understand what really pleases a woman. If you understand how<br />
to know how to push her "hot buttons", then it becomes that<br />
much easier to be a great lover.<br />
<br />
The best way to do this is experiment with the following:<br />
<br />
* Oral sex<br />
* Locating the G-Spot<br />
* Teasing and being seductive<br />
* Building anticipation for "the main event"<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Tip #3- Delay your gratification</span><br />
<br />
As you've probably realized, your sexual confidence stems from<br />
being able to please a woman. When you can give pleasure to a<br />
woman any time and any place, you'll project a powerful aura<br />
that she'll love!<br />
<br />
And one of the best ways to demonstrate this quality is to delay<br />
your own pleasure during sex. If you provide multiple orgasms<br />
to a woman before worrying taking care of yourself, you'll<br />
transform into a seductive lover.<br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Tip #4- Be aggressive not timid</span><br />
<br />
Many guys have low self esteem in the bedroom because they're<br />
afraid to take initiative. Believe me- Women want you to take<br />
control!<br />
<br />
Once you understand how to give women pleasure, be the<br />
instigator and give her what she wants. Women are turned on<br />
by many things. Primarily, they love a guy who acts like he<br />
can barely control himself when being intimate.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Tip #5- Understand her needs</span><br />
<br />
Women are strange creatures. While some know what they want,<br />
most won't give you a clue about what they secretly desire<br />
from a man.<br />
<br />
So it's up to you to figure out what pleases her!<br />
<br />
By experimenting with various techniques, you'll eventually<br />
encounter the techniques that drive her crazy with passion.<br />
And then you'll have your "secret weapon" for providing her<br />
with pleasure every single time!<br />
<br />
Sexual confidence comes down to understanding women and being<br />
able to discover what pleases them. If you follow the five<br />
steps I discussed in this blog, then you'll be on your way<br />
towards becoming her best lover!<br />
<br />
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continues to be the hardest thing for <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_men" name="AdBriteInlineAd_men" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">men</a>
to overcome. Comedians often say, "It's
not what you say, but how you say it" and
they are completely right.
A single word response such as "What?" can
be interpreted dozens of ways depending on
the characteristics of the voice.
It could be angry, surprised, uninterested
or curious. Say, "what" in using each of
these emotions and note the difference in
your voice.
If you want to successfully flirt with
women stop thinking about the right words
and start to deliver your words in a
confident and irresistible manner.
Below are some things you should take into
consideration when flirting with women.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">1. SPEAK DEEPER</span>
Women often say that deep voices are
extremely sexy. Deep voices are sexy
because they represent a cool, fearless,
in control personality.
A deep masculine voice is universally more
sexy to women and helps distinguish
your voice from all others. This sort of
voice becomes very important in isolated
and private settings when you're together
with women. How to deepen your voice:
1. Place your hand on your chest
2. Say a few words and note the feeling on
your hand
3. Stop talking and begin to hum
4. Lower the tone to increase the bass in
your voice.
5. Note the feeling on your hand
6. <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_Continue" name="AdBriteInlineAd_Continue" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">Continue</a> to hum and turn the sound into
words
7. Admire your new, confident, attractive
voice
You don't need to have an extremely deep
voice but it should be deep enough to
communicate that you're comfortable in the
presence of women. If you notice when you
talk to women your voice becomes squeaky
from nervousness use this technique to
compose your voice.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">2. SPEAK LOUDER</span>
Part of a confident voice is the volume
you project. Confident men flirt with
loud, strong and <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1233590121_1" style="border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(0, 102, 204); cursor: pointer;">clear voices</span>.
Unconfident men speak with soft, weak and
muffled voices that project fear and low
self-esteem. If you want to get the
attention of women start speaking with a
louder voice.
If women intimidate you, chances are your
voice is very soft. Boost your voice to a
volume that seems too loud and you'll
speak at a comfortable volume. Because
you're not use to speaking at this volume
it will seem very loud; don't worry,
practice makes perfect.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">3. SLOW DOWN</span>
<span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1233590121_2" style="border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(0, 102, 204); cursor: pointer;">Public speaking</span> is a great fear for most
<a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_people" name="AdBriteInlineAd_people" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">people</a>. When somebody stands up to speak
you can tell exactly how confident they
are just by the speed of their voice. When
we talk to our <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_friends" name="AdBriteInlineAd_friends" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">friends</a> we speak in a cool
calm voice and at a reasonably slow pace.
If you hear a terrified person make a
speech against their will, you'll hear the
fear in their voice. Unconfident people
speak at an unnaturally fast pace to "get
it over and done with."
They are so uncomfortable at public
speaking that they rattle off their speech
so fast most people have trouble getting
the main points. Just by listening to the
pace of your voice women can determine if
you're nervous.
<a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_Bonus" name="AdBriteInlineAd_Bonus" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">Bonus</a> Tip: If you're nervous around women
speak at half the speed you think you
should be talking and you'll most likely
be talking at a <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_natural" name="AdBriteInlineAd_natural" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">natural</a> pace.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">4. ADD VARIETY</span>
Comedians are funny because they deliver
their jokes with great timing.
<a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_Learn" name="AdBriteInlineAd_Learn" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">Learn</a> to add emphasis, pauses, pace
changes and fluctuating vocal tone. If you
want to know exactly how to talk to women
study some of the most confident <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1233590121_3" style="border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(0, 102, 204); cursor: pointer;">public
speakers</span> and coaches of our time. Listen
how leaders and seminar speakers keep
people interested by using their voice as
an instrument. Watch some TV and take
notes.
Here's what this all comes down to: A lot
of men say they know what makes a
confident voice and how to project one but
when it comes time to approach women and
use this confident voice, they freeze up.
Just knowing something doesn't make you an
expert; you must put what you know into
practice. Take action.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">5. PLAN</span>
As you already know, the biggest reason
guys get nervous and don't even approach
women is because they don't know what
they're going to say.
That's why planning is important. And no.
I don't mean memorize a script!
I mean make sure you know what you're
going to say first, where you want the
conversation to go and make sure you take
control to achieve this result.
There's nothing worse than walking up to a
woman only to make a complete fool out of
yourself because you didn't know what to
say.
And awkward silences won't win over the
woman you want.
So here's what to do:
1. Grab a sheet of paper
2. Write down all possible lines to start
conversation
3. Write down all the possible things you
can do during your talks
4. Write down exactly how you're going to
ask for her number.
Example:
Hey, we should catch up again soon.Great!
What's your number?
Now here's the best part... If you know
exactly what to say your voice volume,
smoothness, speed and tone all come across
sexy AUTOMATICALLY!
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<div class="blogger-post-footer"><hr /> <a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com">Tips to impress indian girls</a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1254958455058777316.post-14567058017470649332009-09-25T12:39:00.000+05:302013-01-19T09:19:51.260+05:30mistakes done by boys when talking to girls<pre><span style="font-size: 100%;"><tt><tt><tt><tt>If you're tired of not getting the girl, you might want
to take a look at how you're speaking to <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_women" name="AdBriteInlineAd_women" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">women</a> and just
what it is you're saying to them.
Your looks are only going to get you so far and since
first impressions are everything, your conversational
skills will be the determining factor in whether or not
a woman agrees to go on a date with you. If you've ever
wondered why women keep telling you no, the following
<a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_article" name="AdBriteInlineAd_article" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">article</a> will shed some light on the common flirting
mistakes you have been making and how you can avoid
them from now on.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Mistake #1</span><span style="font-weight: bold;">: <span style="font-size: 130%;">Talking SERIOUS around women</span></span>
Chances are you didn't catch her eye by being Mister
Serious. You were probably laughing and joking around
(in other words, being yourself) with your friends. But,
when you walk up to her, you think she wants to see that
you are composed, sophisticated, and you can carry a
mature conversation.
Be yourself. Don't be afraid to open with a crazy
question that one of your friends just asked you.
If she laughs,you're in. You don't need to walk up to
her and pretend that you have it 'together.' Don't try to
be something you are not.Most women can see right through
it.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Misktake #2: Asking boring questions</span>
So, what do you do for work? Yawn. If you want to shoot
down your chance of moving past the handshake, then keep
firing off the Small Talk Questions. It works at Christmas
parties and church picnics, but not when you are trying to
get the phone number of the hottie in the <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_coffee" name="AdBriteInlineAd_coffee" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">coffee</a> shop.
Ask questions that demand more than a one-word or one
sentence answer. Ask questions that might reveal something
about that person. Ask questions that challenge (but
certainly not insult) a person. That is how REAL conversation
is started.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Misktake #3: Communicating too directly</span>
"I'll call you tomorrow around lunch time..." STOP, what
you aredoing, and leave a little bit to the imagination.
Telling her every little thing takes the game out of it.
<a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_Men" name="AdBriteInlineAd_Men" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">Men</a> constantly give away too much when they talk to women,
and it works to their disadvantage. Provide too much
information, and it might just be more than she wants to
hear.
Listen more, talk less. Don't give away the details.
Women are <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_naturally" name="AdBriteInlineAd_naturally" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">naturally</a> attracted to the chase, so you might
as well give it to her. They cannot resist wondering...
"When is he going to call... Is he going to call... ??"
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Misktake #4: Letting the conversation drag</span>
This is one of the most commonly committed errors by men.
Talking too long and trying desperately to keep this hot
chick in front of you for as long as possible. Until, of
course, the conversation starts to lag and you find yourself
toeing the floor in front of you, repeating things that were
funny at the beginning of the conversation, and then finally
the dreaded 10 seconds of silence before saying... OK, well
I'll give you a call. You know what I am talking about.
When you get to the peak of a conversation, leave. I
don't mean just walk away in mid-sentence, but while
both of you are talking and laughing, just casually look
at your watch and say something like, "Oh, sorry... I've
got to meet a <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_friend" name="AdBriteInlineAd_friend" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">friend</a> in about 10 minutes..."
Note: Leave with phone number in hand (or at least make
sure she has yours).
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Misktake #5: Sucking up too much</span>
You're so pretty. I love your smile. Awwww... that's
so nice, but she doesn't give a damn. Interestingly,
most women (especially the super-attractive ones)
react more favorably to teasing rather than sucking up.
Sucking up doesn't give you the backbone, and certainly
doesn't exude the confidence you need to land the girl.
Get a backbone and make this girl realize that she
isn't going to bowl you over with looks alone. Stick out
your tongue, or comment on something in her teeth.
You give the impression that your standards might just
be a little higher than hers... she'll be intrigued to
say the least... and she won't exactly know why.
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Misktake #6: Talking without intention</span>
If you fail to plan, then you should plan to fail. That
saying is as old as dirt. But it's true. So why would
you go up to a girl without an end plan? I don't know
either. Are you after her number? Do you want to give
her yours? Or are you propositioning her for the evening...?
No matter how you slice it, you better know where you
are headed, or you are going nowhere with her. Don't
just talking for the sake of talking.
If you want to end up getting her number, then you
need to talk your way into getting it. It's not a
manipulation thing, but you need to work yourself
into a place where it seems appropriate to ask
(or to give her yours).
<span style="font-size: 130%; font-weight: bold;">Misktake #7: Don't know what to say</span>
In reality, the other six mistakes never come into play
because most men never let themselves get past this point.
Ever walk up to a girl and open your mouth and nothing
comes out? Me either... but you can imagine the feeling
if it actually did happen. That's why we talk ourselves
out of stepping up to the plate in the first place. We
have no <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_idea" name="AdBriteInlineAd_idea" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">idea</a> what to say. We are afraid to be ourselves,
we don't want to ask boring questions, we only know how
to suck up to pretty girls, we are deathly afraid of
'silence' and we don't have a plan. Perfect, so let's not
even go up to her.
The only way you are ever going to knock the ball out of
the park is if you get in the game! You can't get the girl
by sitting on the sidelines. <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_Arm" name="AdBriteInlineAd_Arm" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">Arm</a> yourself with a plan,
don't ask boring questions, intrigue her, tease her, keep
her guessing and start landing the ladies you want!
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<div class="blogger-post-footer"><hr /> <a href="http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com">Tips to impress indian girls</a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1254958455058777316.post-11455759325255766342009-09-25T12:34:00.000+05:302013-01-19T09:19:36.460+05:30How to talk to girlsHave you ever had trouble when you talk to girl? To talk to women can be daunting at times, especially when you feel you haven’t anything exciting or interesting to talk about. Most men feel anxiety when they start to talk to a beautiful <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_woman" name="AdBriteInlineAd_woman" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">woman</a> they just met. This is completely normal, and should be expected when you begin to talk to women. The best thing you can do is relax. That’s first.<br />
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This feeling of anxiety usually begins as a numb feeling in your stomach which quickly escalates to your head. You talk but the words come out that don’t seem interesting or engaging, so you start doubting your abilities as a conversationalist. Then, you start asking question after question, and she seems to respond with less and less detail, eventually getting back to just one or two <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_word" name="AdBriteInlineAd_word" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">word</a> responses.<br />
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You: So where did you get those sunglasses?<br />
Her: Huh? Oh… Gucci (as her eyes roll, and then try to locate her friends)<br />
You: Ummm… so where did you say you were from again?<br />
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If you don’t stop this downward momentum quickly, she’s going to leave. And soon enough, the conversation has taken a detour to the point of no return.<br />
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This situation usually concludes with awkward silence, and her burning words…<br />
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“Well, I guess I better get back to my friends.”<br />
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This isn’t how you should talk to women, and it doesn’t have to be.<br />
How You Should Talk To Girl<br />
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We blew it that conversation. You need to understand a few things when you first start to talk to women. First, in many circumstances this isn’t your fault. Women are often preoccupied, in an unsocial mood, drunk, or just plain mean. Don’t let this stop you from searching out beautiful women that you can talk to.<br />
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Here is the secret when you talk to women:<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">HAVE A BACKUP PLAN</span><br />
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When you have a backup plan, its like a conversational map with directions to your goal of getting a date, a number, or moving to another location. Odds are in your favor when you have a predictable and realistic goal when you talk with women. You don’t wuss out of at least trying to reach your goal. Because of this you can also steer clear of any foreseeable problems caused by you (like running out of things to say). Even with your plan, don’t let your initial conversation sound like a <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_job" name="AdBriteInlineAd_job" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">job</a> interview. This is incredibly boring, and predictable.<br />
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Always view your conversation from a 3rd party’s perspective, and if you don’t like what you hear, change it up. If you do feel the conversation heading south, quickly have one thing to say or do that will make your save and <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_continue" name="AdBriteInlineAd_continue" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">continue</a> on as if you weren’t going down.<br />
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Something like:<br />
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“Oh, that reminds me of (some random story) ”<br />
“What’s the story behind (something they’re wearing thats interesting or unusual)”<br />
“What’s your opinion on (something nearby that might be controversial)”<br />
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A fail safe technique is to make <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_generalizations" name="AdBriteInlineAd_generalizations" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">generalizations</a> about women to keep the conversation spicy and interesting to her. For some reason women go <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_crazy" name="AdBriteInlineAd_crazy" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">crazy</a> for it.<br />
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“Oh you (name city) girls… from what I hear (wait two seconds) TROUBLE.”<br />
Don’t Do This When You Talk To Women<br />
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There are a few topic never to bring up when you begin to talk to women. Some topics might include: overt sex talk, politics, social problems (poverty, immigration) and religion. All other topics seem to be great, and most of those forbidden topics can be addressed but only with care and definitely not within the first five or so dates.<br />
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Never supplicate in actions or when you talk to a woman. Never ASK permission to do things, instead <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_LEAD" name="AdBriteInlineAd_LEAD" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">LEAD</a> (Only when a woman refuses should you stop, not just casual disapproval). Never be too physical or not physical enough. Try and get a <a href="" id="AdBriteInlineAd_good" name="AdBriteInlineAd_good" style="-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: transparent url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x scroll center bottom; color: #006600; cursor: pointer; margin-bottom: -2px; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_top">good</a> balance, occasional touches on the elbow or small of her back are welcomed. This should help you start to talk to women in a more interesting way.<br />
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