what girls actually want in men,-the most important topic

Ask any woman what they're actually looking for in their ideal man,
and most of them will say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy
them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends.

They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk
to about their problems.

Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk
to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn't get any
farther than being just friends.

All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they
can never seem to find a nice guy to date.
The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women aren't
lying when they say they want these things...when they think logical
they do, because it makes sense.

But remember, women don't choose logically what they are attracted
to.

So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that
will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down.
But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control
and act like a man should.

So what qualities do women want in men?

What they've always wanted and always will want. Women want real
men, men that are in control and don't ask for permission to do
anything. They don't want to be in charge, they want someone to be
in charge of them.

I know this sounds harsh, but it's true.

Here are some examples, have ever noticed that...

When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how beautiful she is
she shies away from you?

This probably happens every time you try and start a conversation.
But when you...
Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved in the
conversation and take you more seriously.

Also, have you noticed...
When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her to an expensive
dinner, she usually thanks you the evening and goes out with another
guy?

But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you are equals
she feels attracted to you, because you're not catering to her every
need.

Have you noticed when....

You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny.

But, when you don't call her and you act like you're busy and could
live with her or without her, she won't stop calling you.
The truth is women don't want to be catered to, spoiled or
treated like princesses. This is what women want from a man...

First of all, women want you to be confident in your self. So, if
you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off.
Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around.
They don't want to talk about what you are going to do, they just
want you to lead the way and do it.

They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional.
Using 'disconnections' works most NATURALLY to make it
challenging, fun, yet exciting enough to 'entice' women (esp those who
get hit on a lot) to stick longer and see what you've got in store for them
as you're talking.


Women want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring and dull.
Just because you are into collecting stamps or currencies,
it does NOT mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your
hobby.

Women want you to make them laugh. So as you can see,
entertaining and fun = VERY IMPORTANT.

They don't want to know everything about you all at once, they want
to wonder. So, no matter how tempting it may be you don't have to
tell them you whole life story.

Women want to keep guessing.

They hate it... guessing, not knowing what you're up to...

But secretly LOVE at at the same time... that's what makes this
game so 'exciting'... so appealing for them... not knowing what's
going to happen next.
They want you to have more to talk about than "the game last night",
they want you to be interesting.

They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to have
a life goal or something you are trying to achieve.

In other words, they want to know what you want from life.
so go on guyz.....