Story telling to girls- Most important

Building attraction is not about approaching a woman, saying a
few lines and instantly seducing her.  Instead it's about
demonstrating higher value then using it to make girls
interested.

That's why it's important to understand what makes women
attracted to guys and how use this information to instantly
build sexual chemistry with a girl you've just met.

The good news is there is a great technique you can use to show
ALL your positive qualities without a woman noticing what you're
doing.

It can be done by telling a good STORY.

Out of all your routines, the stories you tell are as important
as your openers.  If you know the RIGHT way to tell them, you'll
have an unfair advantage over other guys.

So what makes a good story?

Well it has many elements.  Unlike the stories you tell your
friends and family, you MUST concentrate on specific things in
order to demonstrate high status.

That's why I've decided to list my 10 part complete system
for creating stories that'll attract women.


1- Keep it simple stupid

When you tell stories, you must stick to the old adage-
K.I.S.S. (Keep it simple stupid)

The usual venues for meeting women can be loud and crowded. 
Furthermore, girls in bars/clubs have short attention spans. 
All of these factors combine to create an environment that
makes it hard to tell a story.

So the first thing to know about a story is to keep it short
and to the point.  (No longer then 1-2 minutes.)  If it's longer
then a few minutes, then you have to edit it and ONLY keep the
important parts.


2- Use good material 

The next element is easy.  You have to ONLY use material that's
interesting to most women.  (In other words, don't tell anything
that'll offend or bore anybody)

Specifically, girls like hear about drama, adventure and anything
humor humorous.  So do yourself a favor and concentrate your
stories on these specific topics.

3- Demonstrate higher status

As I mentioned at the beginning of this email, a story should be
told in a way which demonstrates YOUR high status.  Any material
you use has to briefly touch on the SPECIFIC qualities that women
love about guys.

For instance, here are some qualities you should focus on:

* Preselected by women
* Leadership within your peer group
* An ability to take action
* Bravery in tough situations
* An adventurous and fun lifestyle
* Loyalty to your friends


4- Be indirect NOT direct

Now when I mention how it's important to demonstrate high status
in your story, I don't mean you should start bragging about
yourself.  Instead use your storytelling to indirectly mention
your positive qualities.

The best way to do this is to use language that vaguely
demonstrates your positive qualities.

For instance, let's pretend that you want to demonstrate that
you're pre-selected by attractive women. 

You wouldn't say something like:

"I have an ex-girlfriend who is model.  In fact, I date LOTS of
models.  Anyway, I was hanging out with her at a photo shoot one
day..."

Instead you want to something like this

"So get this, the other day I was hanging out with my ex at her
photo shoot, when the craziest thing happened..."

As you can see both statements say the same thing.  But the later
reveals that you often hang out AND date attractive women in a
way that does NOT appear to be bragging.

5- Hook them in

With every story, there will be ONE element that stands out from
the other facts.  In short, this will be part that HOOKS the
listener in.

The hook should be a little nugget of information which is
something out of the ordinary that people wouldn't ordinarily
hear during a conversation.

When you're telling the story, the hook should be a statement
during the first few sentences that'll attract her attention
and make her wonder where you're going to go with it.



6- The opening statement

Like your opener, the first thing you say will set the WHOLE tone
of the story.

When you first approach a group you should project fun and
energy with your body language.  This also the case when you
tell stories to a group. 

When you start a story, you must begin with a high level of
energy and fun, THEN give a statement that is congruent to what
you're saying.

For instance, you start with something like:

"Holy crap, the weirdest thing happened to me yesterday..."

7- Create conversation threads

A good story can set up HOURS of conversation topics.  If told
properly, it should reveal a lot of facts about your personality
and background without sounding like you're bragging.

That's why it's important to be a little vague and mysterious
about what you're revealing.  Instead of coming out and telling
things about yourself, you should introduce certain topics in a
way that'll naturally arise some curiosity from your audience.

For instance, you could say statements like:

* "So whenever I drive my bike, I get the weirdest looks..."
[Why is it weird looking]

* "Fortunately because of my job, I can do stuff at a moments
notice..." [What type of job do you have]

* "Ever since my childhood, I've had this protective streak about
women..." [What happened to make you this way]

8- Learn to tell a story

In order to tell a good story, you should think of it as comedy
routine.  Just think of your favorite comedians.  They probably
ALL get laughs not through WHAT they're saying, but more about HOW
they do it.

To tell a good story, you have to learn how to pace and deliver
the crucial elements. Often, it's not about what you're saying,
it's about how you deliver it.


9- The payoff

A good story will always have a payoff.  This is basically a
statement that is similar to a "punch line" or at least indicates
a conclusion.

While you don't have to always go for a big laugh, the payoff
should let the group know that you're done with the story

For instance, one of my favorite stories ends with:

"And that's why I'll NEVER drink desi during a pub crawl!"
[Trust me, this particular story ALWAYS gets a good laugh]
 
10- Practice

You will NOT tell a good story if you haven't perfected ALL the
details.  That's why it's important to practice it till you know
it cold!

A great illustration of this element can be found in the classic
movie- Reservoir Dogs.  In one scene, Mr. Orange [an undercover
cop] practices telling a story that'll be used when he's talking
to criminals.

In a particular memorable scene, Mr. Orange, spends hours on a
rooftop practicing every little detail of the story.  It was
only AFTER he practiced did he try to use it on a real audience.

Well there you have it...

Ten ways to tell the perfect story!

Remember that a good story contains many crucial elements.  As a
result, it's important to sit down and create ones that use all
the things I discussed in this post.

If used properly during the rapport and attraction building stage
of your approach, you'll be able to demonstrate high status in a
very unique way.

How to get your ex-girlfriend back

Do you want your ex-girlfriend back?

If so, then this blog is for you...

Relationships often end for a specific reason. Whether the
romance died or there another person entered the picture, it's
often better to look forward instead of behind.

But what happens if you can't forget about that one woman who you
can't get out of your mind?

Well, my first advice is to take a close look at why you're
obsessing over an ex-girlfriend. Most of the time, you'll discover
that she's not as great as you remembered.

But if you feel that you really need her, then I recommend a
simple course of action. (Just remember that it's often much
easier to get a new girlfriend rather then contacting an old
one)

What you need to do is convince your old flame that you have
improved yourself and you have a lot more to offer her.

To get started, I recommend you follow this 5 step plan for
getting back with your ex-girlfriend:


1- Analyze what went wrong

The first step to is to think about what went wrong. For instance
you should ask yourself:

* Was there another guy?

* Does she no longer like me in a romantic way?

* Was there been a dramatic change in her life?

* Did I do certain things that drove her crazy?

The reason WHY you ask these questions is to determine if things
can be fixed between you and your ex-girlfriend.

If she's with another guy or didn't seem to care about the
break-up, then you probably have LITTLE chance of getting her
back.

So before you implement this system, you should first find out if
you have ANY chance of success.



2- Change yourself


Once you've analyzed what went wrong, you need to make changes to
your life.

The MAIN reason that guys get dumped is due to a LACK of
attraction!

If you want to get her back, then you must make subtle changes to
yourself which demonstrates attractive qualities.

Now the reason women want to date other guys is these men provide
excitement in their lives. Without even knowing it, you probably
developed into a lower status male around your ex-girlfriend.

In order to become an attractive to her, you need to develop
attractive personalities. This includes manly characteristics
like confidence, initiative, an interesting personality and
determination.

If you're able to show these core character traits, then you'll
have the attractive personality that ALL women want from a guy.


3- Start dating other women

While it might seem counterintuitive, one of the best ways to win
back an ex is to start dating other women. When you "see" many
different girls, you'll gain a whole new perspective on your past
relationship.

Plus a woman's jealous nature can be used to your advantage. A
lot of girls are highly attracted to guys who are "preselected" by
other women. By dating other women, you'll be able to trigger her
jealous reactions.


4- Become friends with her

Now that you've made changes to yourself and you're dating other
women, you should contact your ex-girlfriend.

When you first talk to her, set up a "friends date" where you'll
catch up on "old times." This means grabbing coffee, catching a
bit to eat or playing a quick game of pool.

Once you're on this "date", act casual. In other words, don't try
to convince her to get back with you or drudge up past arguments.

Instead, demonstrate your new confident demeanor and focus on
your role as her friend. Then every so often make a comment about
one of the women you're dating. Don't be overt about it, but
nonchalantly mention that you're actively dating other women.



5- Proceed with normal attraction techniques


Since you're now talking to your ex-girlfriend, you have an
opportunity to demonstrate positive qualities. Instead of trying
to rekindle things, I recommend that you show exactly how much
fun you can provide!

It's important to you treat her like you would with other
girls. This means that you follow the basic attraction and
seduction techniques which I recommend.

For instance, you should tease her, be confident and act like you
don't care about the outcome of your interactions. If you do your
job correctly, she'll start to realize that she's missing out on
a golden opportunity. Once this happens, she'll start to pursue
you!

Getting a girlfriend back is something that many guys desire.
If you follow these rules and recommendations, you'll discover
that you can make it happen!

5 attitudes in life to become a guy all girls desire

Have you ever wondered how some guys have a knack for meeting
and attracting different women?

Their secret is they are unafraid to act like a man that women
desire.

I think we all should follow this example!

Here's why...

In the last few decades, society has created a group of men who
are afraid to act like themselves.

We longer go for what we want.

Instead we waste time seeking approval for our actions.  Social
pressures have forced us to be mindful of never offending or
making others feel uncomfortable with our actions.

As a result, men have become AFRAID to pursue women!

When talking to a woman, a lot of guys are worried about doing or
saying the wrong thing.

In fact, they're so worried about "getting it right" that they
end up boring women to tears.

But there's a simple cure...

You can become the type of man who women love!

This is the socially dominant male who is ATTRACTIVE to different
women, while NOT behaving like an arrogant prick.

Here are a few rules for developing this attitude:

1- Be Unique in Your Actions and Efforts
To stand out from the crowd, you have become the unique person
who is desired by ALL women.  You can achieve this by radiating
a confident and positive attitude everywhere you go.

Contrary to what you've learned, you're wildly attractive to
women even if you don't have good-looks, money OR power.

In other words, you have a STRONG belief in yourself!


2- You Never Settle For Second Best

Being a man means you have enough confidence to NEVER let people
take advantage of you.  In your dating life, this means only
hanging out with women who ENRICH your life.

If you ever experience drama, you have enough faith in yourself
to walk away without a second glance.

In addition, you never chase after women.  Instead, you make them
work for your affection.  You know deep down inside that you're a
prize worth fighting for.  If a woman wants your company, she's
going to have to do something extraordinary to earn it.


3- You Have a Busy Life and Only Include Quality Women

Like other men, you have a busy life.  In addition to work and
family, you occupy your time with exciting activities.

Since your time is important, you ONLY make plans with women who
are fun and interesting.

If you ask a woman on a first date, you make sure it's only for
an hour.  That way, if she turns out to be boring, you've
only wasted a little bit of your time.

When setting up future dates, you make plans when it's convenient
for YOU.  If she can't meet you  when you're available, then you
walk away and find a woman who fits better in your life.

In fact you don't even need to look that hard for a woman,
because you already have a large selection of women who want to
be part of your life.


4- You End All Phone Conversations First

As part of your busy life, you don't have time to stay on a
phone all day.

You have TOO MUCH to do!

Furthermore, you know ending all conversations first because
you know it leaves her want more. You know that the busier your
life appears, the more she'll want to be a part of it.

On the phone, your primary task is to set up a date.  And the
conversations only last for about ten minutes.

This is enough time to set up plans for your date.

If she wants to talk more, you let you her know this
conversation could be continued during the next time you see her.


5- Have Fun On Your Dates and Know How to Flirt


The final rule is you have fun on ALL of your dates.

While other guys worry too much about messing up, you take risks
and enjoy the time you spend with each woman.  If your date goes
well and becomes more physical, then that's great!

But if it doesn't go well, you're still happy with the knowledge
that you met a great person who COULD BE a life long friend.

While on your date, you look for every opportunity to tease
your date.  If she says something, you twist around and have
fun with it.

In fact, you often bring sexual innuendos into the conversation.
You have great dates because you're able to flirt and enjoy
yourself.

Well that's it for the 5 rules!  Hopefully these will help
you become the man who ALL women desire!

If you implement these guidelines, you'll discover that life is
more enjoyable and women will find you more attractive.