How to get your ex-girlfriend back

Do you want your ex-girlfriend back?

If so, then this blog is for you...

Relationships often end for a specific reason. Whether the
romance died or there another person entered the picture, it's
often better to look forward instead of behind.

But what happens if you can't forget about that one woman who you
can't get out of your mind?

Well, my first advice is to take a close look at why you're
obsessing over an ex-girlfriend. Most of the time, you'll discover
that she's not as great as you remembered.

But if you feel that you really need her, then I recommend a
simple course of action. (Just remember that it's often much
easier to get a new girlfriend rather then contacting an old
one)

What you need to do is convince your old flame that you have
improved yourself and you have a lot more to offer her.

To get started, I recommend you follow this 5 step plan for
getting back with your ex-girlfriend:


1- Analyze what went wrong

The first step to is to think about what went wrong. For instance
you should ask yourself:

* Was there another guy?

* Does she no longer like me in a romantic way?

* Was there been a dramatic change in her life?

* Did I do certain things that drove her crazy?

The reason WHY you ask these questions is to determine if things
can be fixed between you and your ex-girlfriend.

If she's with another guy or didn't seem to care about the
break-up, then you probably have LITTLE chance of getting her
back.

So before you implement this system, you should first find out if
you have ANY chance of success.



2- Change yourself


Once you've analyzed what went wrong, you need to make changes to
your life.

The MAIN reason that guys get dumped is due to a LACK of
attraction!

If you want to get her back, then you must make subtle changes to
yourself which demonstrates attractive qualities.

Now the reason women want to date other guys is these men provide
excitement in their lives. Without even knowing it, you probably
developed into a lower status male around your ex-girlfriend.

In order to become an attractive to her, you need to develop
attractive personalities. This includes manly characteristics
like confidence, initiative, an interesting personality and
determination.

If you're able to show these core character traits, then you'll
have the attractive personality that ALL women want from a guy.


3- Start dating other women

While it might seem counterintuitive, one of the best ways to win
back an ex is to start dating other women. When you "see" many
different girls, you'll gain a whole new perspective on your past
relationship.

Plus a woman's jealous nature can be used to your advantage. A
lot of girls are highly attracted to guys who are "preselected" by
other women. By dating other women, you'll be able to trigger her
jealous reactions.


4- Become friends with her

Now that you've made changes to yourself and you're dating other
women, you should contact your ex-girlfriend.

When you first talk to her, set up a "friends date" where you'll
catch up on "old times." This means grabbing coffee, catching a
bit to eat or playing a quick game of pool.

Once you're on this "date", act casual. In other words, don't try
to convince her to get back with you or drudge up past arguments.

Instead, demonstrate your new confident demeanor and focus on
your role as her friend. Then every so often make a comment about
one of the women you're dating. Don't be overt about it, but
nonchalantly mention that you're actively dating other women.



5- Proceed with normal attraction techniques


Since you're now talking to your ex-girlfriend, you have an
opportunity to demonstrate positive qualities. Instead of trying
to rekindle things, I recommend that you show exactly how much
fun you can provide!

It's important to you treat her like you would with other
girls. This means that you follow the basic attraction and
seduction techniques which I recommend.

For instance, you should tease her, be confident and act like you
don't care about the outcome of your interactions. If you do your
job correctly, she'll start to realize that she's missing out on
a golden opportunity. Once this happens, she'll start to pursue
you!

Getting a girlfriend back is something that many guys desire.
If you follow these rules and recommendations, you'll discover
that you can make it happen!