Story telling to girls- Most important

Building attraction is not about approaching a woman, saying a
few lines and instantly seducing her.  Instead it's about
demonstrating higher value then using it to make girls
interested.

That's why it's important to understand what makes women
attracted to guys and how use this information to instantly
build sexual chemistry with a girl you've just met.

The good news is there is a great technique you can use to show
ALL your positive qualities without a woman noticing what you're
doing.

It can be done by telling a good STORY.

Out of all your routines, the stories you tell are as important
as your openers.  If you know the RIGHT way to tell them, you'll
have an unfair advantage over other guys.

So what makes a good story?

Well it has many elements.  Unlike the stories you tell your
friends and family, you MUST concentrate on specific things in
order to demonstrate high status.

That's why I've decided to list my 10 part complete system
for creating stories that'll attract women.


1- Keep it simple stupid

When you tell stories, you must stick to the old adage-
K.I.S.S. (Keep it simple stupid)

The usual venues for meeting women can be loud and crowded. 
Furthermore, girls in bars/clubs have short attention spans. 
All of these factors combine to create an environment that
makes it hard to tell a story.

So the first thing to know about a story is to keep it short
and to the point.  (No longer then 1-2 minutes.)  If it's longer
then a few minutes, then you have to edit it and ONLY keep the
important parts.


2- Use good material 

The next element is easy.  You have to ONLY use material that's
interesting to most women.  (In other words, don't tell anything
that'll offend or bore anybody)

Specifically, girls like hear about drama, adventure and anything
humor humorous.  So do yourself a favor and concentrate your
stories on these specific topics.

3- Demonstrate higher status

As I mentioned at the beginning of this email, a story should be
told in a way which demonstrates YOUR high status.  Any material
you use has to briefly touch on the SPECIFIC qualities that women
love about guys.

For instance, here are some qualities you should focus on:

* Preselected by women
* Leadership within your peer group
* An ability to take action
* Bravery in tough situations
* An adventurous and fun lifestyle
* Loyalty to your friends


4- Be indirect NOT direct

Now when I mention how it's important to demonstrate high status
in your story, I don't mean you should start bragging about
yourself.  Instead use your storytelling to indirectly mention
your positive qualities.

The best way to do this is to use language that vaguely
demonstrates your positive qualities.

For instance, let's pretend that you want to demonstrate that
you're pre-selected by attractive women. 

You wouldn't say something like:

"I have an ex-girlfriend who is model.  In fact, I date LOTS of
models.  Anyway, I was hanging out with her at a photo shoot one
day..."

Instead you want to something like this

"So get this, the other day I was hanging out with my ex at her
photo shoot, when the craziest thing happened..."

As you can see both statements say the same thing.  But the later
reveals that you often hang out AND date attractive women in a
way that does NOT appear to be bragging.

5- Hook them in

With every story, there will be ONE element that stands out from
the other facts.  In short, this will be part that HOOKS the
listener in.

The hook should be a little nugget of information which is
something out of the ordinary that people wouldn't ordinarily
hear during a conversation.

When you're telling the story, the hook should be a statement
during the first few sentences that'll attract her attention
and make her wonder where you're going to go with it.



6- The opening statement

Like your opener, the first thing you say will set the WHOLE tone
of the story.

When you first approach a group you should project fun and
energy with your body language.  This also the case when you
tell stories to a group. 

When you start a story, you must begin with a high level of
energy and fun, THEN give a statement that is congruent to what
you're saying.

For instance, you start with something like:

"Holy crap, the weirdest thing happened to me yesterday..."

7- Create conversation threads

A good story can set up HOURS of conversation topics.  If told
properly, it should reveal a lot of facts about your personality
and background without sounding like you're bragging.

That's why it's important to be a little vague and mysterious
about what you're revealing.  Instead of coming out and telling
things about yourself, you should introduce certain topics in a
way that'll naturally arise some curiosity from your audience.

For instance, you could say statements like:

* "So whenever I drive my bike, I get the weirdest looks..."
[Why is it weird looking]

* "Fortunately because of my job, I can do stuff at a moments
notice..." [What type of job do you have]

* "Ever since my childhood, I've had this protective streak about
women..." [What happened to make you this way]

8- Learn to tell a story

In order to tell a good story, you should think of it as comedy
routine.  Just think of your favorite comedians.  They probably
ALL get laughs not through WHAT they're saying, but more about HOW
they do it.

To tell a good story, you have to learn how to pace and deliver
the crucial elements. Often, it's not about what you're saying,
it's about how you deliver it.


9- The payoff

A good story will always have a payoff.  This is basically a
statement that is similar to a "punch line" or at least indicates
a conclusion.

While you don't have to always go for a big laugh, the payoff
should let the group know that you're done with the story

For instance, one of my favorite stories ends with:

"And that's why I'll NEVER drink desi during a pub crawl!"
[Trust me, this particular story ALWAYS gets a good laugh]
 
10- Practice

You will NOT tell a good story if you haven't perfected ALL the
details.  That's why it's important to practice it till you know
it cold!

A great illustration of this element can be found in the classic
movie- Reservoir Dogs.  In one scene, Mr. Orange [an undercover
cop] practices telling a story that'll be used when he's talking
to criminals.

In a particular memorable scene, Mr. Orange, spends hours on a
rooftop practicing every little detail of the story.  It was
only AFTER he practiced did he try to use it on a real audience.

Well there you have it...

Ten ways to tell the perfect story!

Remember that a good story contains many crucial elements.  As a
result, it's important to sit down and create ones that use all
the things I discussed in this post.

If used properly during the rapport and attraction building stage
of your approach, you'll be able to demonstrate high status in a
very unique way.