Every day, I receive dozens of emails from
readers just like you who are having difficulty in some aspect
of their dating life.
Throughout this blog, I'm going to include some answers
to the questions I commonly get. By doing it this way, I can
hopefully cover the problems you're having while telling the
thousands of other guys on this list.
In today's blog I'm going to respond to a question I
typically receive once or twice a DAY:
"What do I when a girl already has a boyfriend?"
I'm going to be honest with you...
When a woman talks about her boyfriend, she's sending you signals
that she's not available for dating. It's her way to tell other
guys that she's taken WITHOUT creating an awkward situation.
From what you've written, it's my OPINION that she likes you as
a friend.
To be honest, this happens a LOT to guys. They mistakenly
think a woman is showing a sign of attraction when she opens up
and shares her inner feelings. However when a woman enjoys
hanging out with you, but talks about her boyfriend, she's
telling you that you're her FRIEND.
Now that does NOT mean you don't have a chance. The sad fact is
SOME women are open to doing dating guys despite the fact that
they have a boyfriend.
If you're wondering if she's like this, I recommend you do
something called "The Attraction Test". I works like this:
1- Treat her like a woman
When you're with her, treat her LIKE a woman. In other
words, don't be afraid to joke about sex or tease her in a
suggestive manner (ie: cocky/funny).
Don't be coy or nonsexual around her. Instead act like a guy
who is comfortable with the topic of sex. You're doing this
because you want her to view you as someone she WANTS to date,
NOT as a only a friend
2- Find out more about her boyfriend
Next, you should do some research on her boyfriend.
Now I want to mention one thing....I personally think it's a
BAD idea to intentionally sabotage a relationship.
But...
If she's not happy (or is attracted to you) then it's YOUR
decision if you want to pursue things. I want to take a chance
then you need to find out more about this OTHER guy.
So try asking her about the boyfriend. Figure out what she thinks
of him and their relationship. If it appears that she's not in a
good relationship, then this might be an indicator that she could
into you.
You might have a chance if she's not happy!
On the other hand, if she gushes about how wonderful he is and what
she loves about him, then you're being sent a CLEAR sign that you
probably won't succeed with this woman.
3- Date other women
Finally, you want to do something that might seem a little
"counterintuitive". Instead of going after this girl, you want
to date OTHER women.
The idea behind dating other women is to test her reaction. If
she seems upset or jealous, then you KNOW that she's ripe for
the taking!
Next time you're around her, start talking about the women
you're currently dating. In fact, make it seem that you're
being actively pursued by a number of different girls in your
life.
But back to this particular woman...
If you're talking about OTHER women you're interested in, you
could see some jealous feelings from her. When this happens you
know she has feelings for you.
Well if you want to find out the true feelings of the girl,
you have to a little research.
Remember this...
Regardless of the outcome, you should work hard to date different
women till you find one that you REALLY want to be with. Once
you've dated lots of women, you won't be wrapped in ONE woman who
might not be returning your feelings.
Never confuse a woman's TRUE intentions!
My advice is if you like a woman THAT WAY, then act like a guy
she WANTS to date. In other words, don't be her buddy
or the shoulder to cry on.
If you do, you'll end up in the worst place possible...
THE FRIENDS ZONE!
This is the last place you want to go.
SO......Dont be there.
smotion
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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