"How can I have sex with this woman?"
This is a common question guys have when they're on a date with
a girl. They like her, think she's attractive and want to
find a way to "close the deal".
Unfortunately, most guys are CLUELESS about how to take things
to the next level.
If you're like a lot of men, then you're probably had problems in
the past with making that transition from a date to the bedroom.
And most women aren't NEVER seem to help you out!
But there's something that you probably never realized...
To have sex with a woman, you have to understand that it's a
PROCESS not a DESTINATION. In other words, if you're wondering
how to make a move 2-3 hours into the date, then you've
ALREADY failed!
The secret to moving from a date to sex is simple...
You establish physical contact at the start of the date and
build up this tension till you're having sex. In other words,
you have to know how to TOUCH her.
Establish a physical connection, is the BEST way to led things
towards a sexual encounter. But you have to do it the RIGHT
way!
So when I tell you to touch her, I DON'T mean you should act
like a sex-starved pervert who is constantly groping women.
Instead you should follow a natural progression which revolves
around her levels of comfort.
In essence you want to follow what I like to call:
The Touching Progression Model
The idea behind this technique is to make a woman feel
comfortable with your touch in order to increase the level of
sexual tension.
So if you want to become intimate with her, you should
initiate touching in a manner that starts with "safe touching"
and goes all the way to "sexual touching".
And as you progress up the "touching ladder", you'll constantly
observe her body language and see if she's comfortable with your
physical contact. To get started, here is a list of touching
which ranges from LOW RISK all the way to HIGH RISK:
--> Touching her arm (or vice versa)
--> Touching her leg (or vice versa)
--> Touching her medium risk areas (forearms, shoulders, knee,
or wrist)
--> Holding her hand
--> Putting your arms around her (or vice versa)
--> Having her sit on your lap
--> Touching her intimate areas like her face, chest, neck and
inner thighs
Now there is something important thing to remember about "The
Touching Progression Model". Your goal is to go from an initial
conversation to KISSING her.
If done correctly, you can use it easily transition into sex. So
you must take any with a woman interaction through these steps
and ensure that she's comfortable with each escalation point.
To really ramp up your touching, you should implement the "Two
steps forward, one step back" rule.
This means you should constantly advance your physical contact,
but also pull back before she's uncomfortable. Just remember to
be the first to break contact. If she doesn't like your arm
around you, then COMPLETELY break contact. What usually happens
is the girl enjoys your physical contact. When you end it on
YOUR terms, she'll try to find a way to get you to reinitiate
the touching.
Now the big question is this:
Should you touch her or should you get her to touch you?
Well the answer is pretty simple. ALWAYS make it seem like she's
the one who is initiating the physical contact. A way you can do
this is to take her hand and put it on YOUR arm.
By making it seem like she's the one to initiate contact, you'll
reduce her nervousness and let her know that she's in complete
control of the physical escalation.
Another thing to remember about physical escalation is keep you
have to keep it active. When you're touching her, you want to make
it lively not stale. For instance, if you're holding her hands,
then you could lightly run your fingers along her hands in
playful manner.
Initiating physical contact is the gateway between a conversation
and sex. If you want to be intimate with a woman, then you have
to know to make her turned on JUST from your touch.
If you follow the physical escalation model that I talked about,
then you'll discover it's easy to move things quickly towards
intimacy.
Remember touching a woman is the FIRST indicator of what
you'll be like in the bedroom. So make sure you're doing it
RIGHT!
smotion
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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