There are moments in your life when you just want to have sex!
While you probably know the importance of a relationship or even
might be looking for that special someone, sometimes you just
want to get laid.
That's why it's important to know how to seduce any woman you
meet!
Without seduction, you have little chance of having sex.
Now many guys understand the importance of seduction, but they
don't know where to start. In fact they've probably found that
it can be quite difficult to transition from a date to "getting
it on" with a woman.
If you're one of these guys, then I don't have to tell you that
it's frustrating to like a woman but have no clue about how to
seduce her.
But allow me to let you in on a little secret...
WOMEN LIKE SEX AS MUCH AS US!
While they pretend to be seduced, they actually probably have as
much desire for sex as any man. However they're fairly selective
about the manner of their sexual encounters.
For instance, women don't like to make the first move. Instead
they want to be pursued and desired by men. In essence this means
you have to have the courage and forwardness to become a seducer
of women.
Even if a woman is really into you, sex won't happen unless you
make the first move. That means if she's into you, there'll be
little resistance to your seduction techniques.
Now you might be one of those guys who is nervous about making
the first move.
If that's the case, then you can use the following technique
for progressing from a date to having sex...
It's called 'MAKING A initiation'
A initiation is any point where you can ESCALATE and interaction
with a woman.
An example would be when you're talking to a woman and you start
kissing her.
It's important to know why initiations work. In other words,
you have notice those SPECIFIC moments where an OBSTACLE is
preventing you from taking any further action. By spotting
these roadblocks, you easily overcome them!
And once this happens, you'll rapidly increase your success
with women.
To go from meeting a woman to having sex, you need to make a plan
for EVERY escalation point and what you need to do to get to the
next step.
By knowing how to navigate through this process, you'll discover
it's pretty easy to seduce many different women!
My advice for planning out your transitions is to write down
all the times where you encounter a roadblock or stopping point.
Then make a plan for overcoming it!
So think of this moment and how you'll handle it!
Some examples could include getting a woman's number, setting
up a date, initiating physical contact, kissing her and then
finally seducing her.
Once you know what you're going to do, put it to memory!
By planning out your transitions, you'll be able to rapidly
seduce her with confidence and ease.
Understanding how to succeed with women is something you CAN learn!
If you understand these transition techniques, you'll be able
to QUICKLY and EFFORTLESSLY seduce any woman you meet.
Seduction isn't a hard skill! If you're in a conversation
with a woman and she's attracted to you, then it isn't hard
to get her into the bedroom.
You just have to know how to handle the next step!
Saturday, July 31, 2010
openers for all situations
I'd like to tell you a story...
I want to share a story with you all that I thought was
interesting.
Friday night, I was out with a friend of mine clubbing. As we
were walking from one club to another, we saw two women walking
together in front of us.
These women were HOT!
So hot, in fact, that every guy they passed by on the sidewalk
tried to talk to them. How did they try this? By saying things
like:
"Hey, where you going?"
"Damn, you fine!"
"Hey, come back here, baby!"
Needless to say, these girls were completely ignoring each and
every guy who talked to them.
It's a harsh reality that most girls who are as hot as these two
were get approached by men ALL THE TIME, and have heard every
stupid line in the book. In fact, they get approached so much,
that they don't even respond anymore. They're just focused on
getting to where they're going.
So of course, upon seeing this, I thought to myself "How would
I approach these girls?"
The answer was pretty self-evident. In fact, it was staring
me right in the face!
The situation was dictating what I should say to them.
"Oh my god! Every single guy is trying to pick you guys up! How
annoying is that? You guys need to hire BODYGUARDS just to keep
all these horny waldos away!"
This is an example of a SITUATIONAL OPENER.
Situational Openers can be the best way to meet a woman if
they are done right. This is because this type of Opener is
UNIQUE to the interaction you are having with the woman.
Not only that, but it shows you guys have a common
understanding of the reality you are mutually experiencing.
And that, my friends, creates a connection between the two
of you.
It's like knowing the punch line to a joke most others have no
clue about.
And more importantly, this is one of my most favorite kind of
situational opener, namely, the "Crash and Burn" opener.
This is a situational opener where you capitalize on other
men's failures, while conveying the illusion that you are
different from the other guys and are not looking to get into
the woman's pants (even though the truth may be VASTLY
different from that which you are conveying).
For example, anytime you are in a situation where there are
women you want to approach, and you see a guy go up to them
and try to hit on them, this gives you the chance to use the
"Crash and Burn" opener.
Simply walk up to the girl, and comment on what the other
guy did wrong.
Saying things like:
"So, how'd he do?"
or
"Did it hurt? He was hitting on you pretty hard. Did it
hurt?"
Or anything along those lines will open up your target for
conversation. These types of "Crash and Burn" openers work
great in high stimulus environments where girls are being
hit on (like malls and clubs, for example).
So next time you see some poor schmoe strike out, be sure
to take the opportunity to capitalize on it!
You can find out more about the "Crash and Burn" Opener,
along with other Situational Openers in my ebook, "The Art
of Approaching: How to meet ANY Woman, ANY Time, ANY Where
you may be."
I want to share a story with you all that I thought was
interesting.
Friday night, I was out with a friend of mine clubbing. As we
were walking from one club to another, we saw two women walking
together in front of us.
These women were HOT!
So hot, in fact, that every guy they passed by on the sidewalk
tried to talk to them. How did they try this? By saying things
like:
"Hey, where you going?"
"Damn, you fine!"
"Hey, come back here, baby!"
Needless to say, these girls were completely ignoring each and
every guy who talked to them.
It's a harsh reality that most girls who are as hot as these two
were get approached by men ALL THE TIME, and have heard every
stupid line in the book. In fact, they get approached so much,
that they don't even respond anymore. They're just focused on
getting to where they're going.
So of course, upon seeing this, I thought to myself "How would
I approach these girls?"
The answer was pretty self-evident. In fact, it was staring
me right in the face!
The situation was dictating what I should say to them.
"Oh my god! Every single guy is trying to pick you guys up! How
annoying is that? You guys need to hire BODYGUARDS just to keep
all these horny waldos away!"
This is an example of a SITUATIONAL OPENER.
Situational Openers can be the best way to meet a woman if
they are done right. This is because this type of Opener is
UNIQUE to the interaction you are having with the woman.
Not only that, but it shows you guys have a common
understanding of the reality you are mutually experiencing.
And that, my friends, creates a connection between the two
of you.
It's like knowing the punch line to a joke most others have no
clue about.
And more importantly, this is one of my most favorite kind of
situational opener, namely, the "Crash and Burn" opener.
This is a situational opener where you capitalize on other
men's failures, while conveying the illusion that you are
different from the other guys and are not looking to get into
the woman's pants (even though the truth may be VASTLY
different from that which you are conveying).
For example, anytime you are in a situation where there are
women you want to approach, and you see a guy go up to them
and try to hit on them, this gives you the chance to use the
"Crash and Burn" opener.
Simply walk up to the girl, and comment on what the other
guy did wrong.
Saying things like:
"So, how'd he do?"
or
"Did it hurt? He was hitting on you pretty hard. Did it
hurt?"
Or anything along those lines will open up your target for
conversation. These types of "Crash and Burn" openers work
great in high stimulus environments where girls are being
hit on (like malls and clubs, for example).
So next time you see some poor schmoe strike out, be sure
to take the opportunity to capitalize on it!
You can find out more about the "Crash and Burn" Opener,
along with other Situational Openers in my ebook, "The Art
of Approaching: How to meet ANY Woman, ANY Time, ANY Where
you may be."
5 easy steps to seduce any girl
Seduction can be a confusing concept for many guys. Because this
is a topic covered by MANY sites, there is almost TOO much
information out there.
What's the end result? Well, with the large amount of "seduction
material", the average guy can learn a lot about various "pick up
tricks".
But in all likelihood, he'll fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY
behind each technique.
Frankly, I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be boiled
down to a few easy steps. If you understand the philosophy behind
each step, then you'll do better then 99% of the other guys who
only look for "quick-fix" solutions.
So here is formula for how seduction works:
1- Mental Game
The most "seductive" men are the guys who overcome the PROBLEMS
with their confidence AND self limiting beliefs. What these guys
understand is the importance of having the right mindset before
approaching women.
I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their
mind when it comes to meeting women. In order to be seductive to
women, you must ensure you're displaying an attractive
personality at ALL times!
2- Approaching Women
Approaching women isn't about using some cheesy pick up line!
It's about displaying a high status personality while attracting
her interest. That's why it's important to use a neutral opener
that doesn't indicate your interest.
Most women want guys who are high status. By NOT displaying signs
of interest on your approach, you'll attract her attention
without triggering her natural inclination to be wary of new guys
talking to her. And this helps to reinforce a confident, yet
mysterious persona.
3- Make Her Attracted
You CAN'T have seduction she's attracted to you first. And this
attraction is established within the first few minutes of meeting
a guy.
As I stated before, a big mistake you could make is to
demonstrate YOUR attraction to a woman before she displays hers.
Once you approach a woman, you need to focus on creating
attraction. There are many routines and techniques you can use to
make this happen. In fact, MOST of the content you'll find on
"seduction websites" focuses on creating that spark of attraction.
For now, all you need to know is the importance of creating
attraction.
4- Show your attraction
In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a guy, she
must know that you like her for who SHE IS instead of her
appearance.
As a woman becomes attracted to you, she'll demonstrate specific
'Indicators of Interest'. Once you detect these flirting signals,
you should "push and pull" the interaction. Basically these are
routines where you subtly get a woman to sell herself.
And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for, you can
demonstrate your own signs of attraction.
Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your attraction is
to create sexual tension. This is what flirting is all about. One
minute you're showing signs of interest, the next you're pushing
her away and teasing her in a funny manner.
5- The Seduction
While this is the last step listed, seduction is something that
should be happen from the moment you meet a woman. From the
moment you first speak to her, you must be communicating a
sexually confident aura.
Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and
responding with the appropriate response. And during the later
stages of interaction, seduction is about knowing how to
physically escalate, kiss her and THEN progress towards "closing
the deal".
In addition, it's also about being the guy who is confident
enough the control each level of progression. This is the essence
of the DOMINANT male!
So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction summarized
into a few steps.
is a topic covered by MANY sites, there is almost TOO much
information out there.
What's the end result? Well, with the large amount of "seduction
material", the average guy can learn a lot about various "pick up
tricks".
But in all likelihood, he'll fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY
behind each technique.
Frankly, I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be boiled
down to a few easy steps. If you understand the philosophy behind
each step, then you'll do better then 99% of the other guys who
only look for "quick-fix" solutions.
So here is formula for how seduction works:
1- Mental Game
The most "seductive" men are the guys who overcome the PROBLEMS
with their confidence AND self limiting beliefs. What these guys
understand is the importance of having the right mindset before
approaching women.
I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their
mind when it comes to meeting women. In order to be seductive to
women, you must ensure you're displaying an attractive
personality at ALL times!
2- Approaching Women
Approaching women isn't about using some cheesy pick up line!
It's about displaying a high status personality while attracting
her interest. That's why it's important to use a neutral opener
that doesn't indicate your interest.
Most women want guys who are high status. By NOT displaying signs
of interest on your approach, you'll attract her attention
without triggering her natural inclination to be wary of new guys
talking to her. And this helps to reinforce a confident, yet
mysterious persona.
3- Make Her Attracted
You CAN'T have seduction she's attracted to you first. And this
attraction is established within the first few minutes of meeting
a guy.
As I stated before, a big mistake you could make is to
demonstrate YOUR attraction to a woman before she displays hers.
Once you approach a woman, you need to focus on creating
attraction. There are many routines and techniques you can use to
make this happen. In fact, MOST of the content you'll find on
"seduction websites" focuses on creating that spark of attraction.
For now, all you need to know is the importance of creating
attraction.
4- Show your attraction
In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a guy, she
must know that you like her for who SHE IS instead of her
appearance.
As a woman becomes attracted to you, she'll demonstrate specific
'Indicators of Interest'. Once you detect these flirting signals,
you should "push and pull" the interaction. Basically these are
routines where you subtly get a woman to sell herself.
And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for, you can
demonstrate your own signs of attraction.
Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your attraction is
to create sexual tension. This is what flirting is all about. One
minute you're showing signs of interest, the next you're pushing
her away and teasing her in a funny manner.
5- The Seduction
While this is the last step listed, seduction is something that
should be happen from the moment you meet a woman. From the
moment you first speak to her, you must be communicating a
sexually confident aura.
Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and
responding with the appropriate response. And during the later
stages of interaction, seduction is about knowing how to
physically escalate, kiss her and THEN progress towards "closing
the deal".
In addition, it's also about being the guy who is confident
enough the control each level of progression. This is the essence
of the DOMINANT male!
So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction summarized
into a few steps.
Sunday, July 25, 2010
body language basics for impressing girls
Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out
over 50% of your communication comes from your body language -
what you DON'T say and less then 8% of your communication comes
from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say
things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to what
you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the best game in the world and be able
to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online,
but if you used those same successful techniques in the real
world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc -
You would simply crash and burn.
Honestly, body language is most important in attracting women.
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that
you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick
as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time.
You also need to let her know that you are confident and
comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best
way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen
that you can tell is about to give you the "dead eye", give her
a big smile.
Practice smiling at random people. You'll be surprised by how
many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling
WORKS. Just don't make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there's nothing worse than staring at a woman's chest
- or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys
who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to
not look at her chest - she'll wonder why her womanly powers
don't work with you and she'll seek your attention and
subconsciously try to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much
because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact
with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be
comfortable for most women.
Don't stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally
look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make
a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make
serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window
to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.
There are even speed dating type events being run that involve
just staring into each others eyes - and from what I hear, they
are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation
time. Be natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do
prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big
film actors like john,hritik etc. They all have good posture.
It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at
least in mind). It's just generally more attractive and says
lots about who you are. Plus it's good for your back and will
help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
what to say on first phone call
Today I want to discuss "phone game." Specifically we're going
to cover what to say on your first phone call.
As you probably know, a girl's opinion is largely based on the
feelings she experiences during your first phone conversation.
Most guys fail in this area, because they simply "wing it"
instead of forming a plan of action.
Whenever calling a girl there were a NUMBER of things you should
do. For instance, you should do the following in EVERY phone
conversation:
1) Have a "call back humor" joke:
Before you get a number, it's important to have some sort of
connection or private joke. It could be a nickname you give her.
Or if you met her online, you could refer to something about her
profile that you busted her on.
The point is using call back humor will immediately establish
that connection you formed when you first got her number. It
doesn't have to be anything fancy, just a something that shows
points out the connection the two of you have.
2) Have a few questions about her
It's important to establish a connection with any conversation
you have with a woman. Before calling her, jot down a few
questions that you geniunely want to know about her.
Ask about her:
* Hobbies and life outside work
* Dreams and aspirations
* Favorite places to travel
* Music, movies, and books she likes
Now you'll find that many so-called "seduction gurus" tell you to
ignore any rapport seeking questions before you know she's into
you. And they'll also probably recommend never asking anything
that makes you seem like you're trying to seek her approval.
But I honestly believe that it's necessary to ask questions like
this. Honestly, it's important for creating attraction. However
it's equally important to make her feel that sense of connection
where you truly get her.
So I recommend you ask questions about her. But you also want to
challenge her at the same time. Ask her why she likes the things
she does. Tease her a little. Create some banter between the two
of you.
3) Have stories to tell
Stories should be the backbone of ANY attraction building
conversation. Frankly one of the biggest mistake I've made in
the past was having nothing to talk about.
Before picking up the phone, you should jot down a few notes
about some of the interesting things you've done during the week.
Also if you have a story from your past that you know women love,
NOW is the time you should tell it!
Any story you tell should put you in the best possible light. It
should subtly demonstrate that you're a fun, high status guy who
has a lot going on in your life. And if this isn't the truth,
then it's time to get out there and do something!
4) Have a date idea
NEVER, ever pick up the phone without having a few fun activities
planned. It can be something you're doing with your friends. Or
it can be something as simple as a trip to the mall.
The point is you want a specific activity that you're doing
during the week. And then as the conversation comes to the
conclusion, you should invite her to come join you.
Typically this is known as a date. However I'm a firm believer
in not using that word OR making it sound like a big deal. Let
her know that you want to see her again. But you're also NOT
structuring your entire life around seeing her. If she agrees,
she agrees. If she doesn't...Oh well. Next.
Bottom line is a phone call should be a fun experience. Use it
to establish a connection, create attraction, and showcase your
unique personality. Don't make the mistake of being boring
Instead be a exciting, engaging guy that she'll want to
immedietely see in person.
15 signals to know does she likes you
1: She adjusts her clothing or her hair when you are around.
2: She points her breasts in your direction and thrusts them out
when talking to you.
3: She laughs at your jokes... even if they are somewhat unfunny.
4: She gets visibly jealous when you talk about other women.
5: She bends over backwards to satisfy your requests.
6: She asks other people (your friends) about you.
7: She dresses up when she sees you.
8: She asks you if you have got a girlfriend... or your love life
in general.
9: She asks you out.
10: She approaches you first.
11: She texts you out of sudden, and making up trivial topics over
text.
12: She gives you her phone number when you only asked her for
somethning else.
13: She flirts with you and pretends to be annoyed when you tease
her.
14: She maintains eye contact with you and doesn't look away, or
over your shoulder.
15: She appears nervous when you touch her... but she doesn't move
away.
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