body language basics for impressing girls

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Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out
over 50% of your communication comes from your body language -
what you DON'T say and less then 8% of your communication comes
from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say
things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to what
you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the best game in the world and be able
to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online,
but if you used those same successful techniques in the real
world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc -
You would simply crash and burn.

Honestly, body language is most important in attracting women.


Body language basics:

1. Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that
you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick
as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time.

You also need to let her know that you are confident and
comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best
way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen
that you can tell is about to give you the "dead eye", give her
a big smile.

Practice smiling at random people. You'll be surprised by how
many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling
WORKS. Just don't make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)

2. Eye contact

As you know there's nothing worse than staring at a woman's chest
- or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys
who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to
not look at her chest - she'll wonder why her womanly powers
don't work with you and she'll seek your attention and
subconsciously try to get you to look!

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much
because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact
with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be
comfortable for most women.

Don't stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally
look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make
a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make
serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window
to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.

There are even speed dating type events being run that involve
just staring into each others eyes - and from what I hear, they
are pretty successful.

Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation
time. Be natural.


3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do
prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big
film actors like john,hritik etc. They all have good posture.

It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at
least in mind). It's just generally more attractive and says
lots about who you are. Plus it's good for your back and will
help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.