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Monday, October 19, 2009

8 Topics to use on your next date

8 Incredible Conversation Topics You Can Use on Your Dates


Being out of topics is actually a
pretty common thing that happens to a lot of guys. You go on a
few dates and then it seems like there is nothing more you can
really talk about.

But what you probably don't realize is there are a LOT of
different conversation topics you can cover. The trick is to
ONLY focus on the ones that'll increase the level of sexual
tension.

So in other words, NEVER talk about things that are boring
OR focus on NEGATIVITY. The goal of first couple of dates is
to make that physical/emotional connection.

It's NOT about talking a girl's ear off with things that
doesn't want to hear.

So never-

- Say anything negative about the people around you
- Be rude or talk in an arrogant manner
- Talk at length about past relationships which have failed
- Focus on boring "interview topics" like jobs or schooling

Now that you know which topics to avoid, let's move on...

What you need to do here is create an atmosphere on this date
which will increase the chemistry. The best way to do this is
by talking about specific topics that she'll find interesting.

And here are 8 different ways to do this:


1. Tell Great Stories

Learn how to tell 3-4 interesting stories that can be interjected
into your conversation. These stories should portray you in an
interesting and exciting manner while being funny at the same
time! What I suggest is you sit down and craft a few stories
from your life.

Then practice these stories till you know them cold!


2. Focus on emotion


There are numerous topics which women love to discuss.
Generally, these are the focus on basic human emotions (i.e.:
drama, conflict and romance)

You can easily connect to the emotional side of her brain by
discussing *charged* topics that include any of these topics.


3. Personality tests and other games


The best way to be attractive towards women is to demonstrate
higher value. Commonly this is done by demonstrating a skill
or ability that most guys DON'T have.

So if you have the time, I would urge you to read up on "cold
reading" techniques.

You can use these techniques to describe a woman's personality
from limited knowledge you have of her. Even though you've
been on a few dates, learning how to "cold read" is a quick way
to build interest and attraction.


4. Talk about celebrities


People (especially women) LOVE to talk about celebrities. So all
you have to do pay attention to the different headlines in the
tabloids. Then start talking about the shocking exploits of
society's elite.

Trust me, there is ALWAYS something going on in bollywood which
can provide you with a great conversation piece.


5. Create an our world conspiracy


While I think it's important to be a positive person,
you can still have fun gossiping about the people around you.

If you're stuck with stuff to talk about, you can resort to
people watching and commenting about the groups situated around
you.

Doing this create an "our world" mentality where you're having
fun playing guessing games about other folks.

For instance you can watch other couples on the date and
determine if they're going to make it.

Another example is to spot a big group of people, you can play a
game and try to figure out who is the "Alpha Male/Female".


6. Talk about your dreams and aspirations


A great topic of conversation is talking about the different
things you want to achieve in your lifetimes.

When you talk about things like this, you're making a connection
to a positive emotion. As a result, you'll discover it's easy to
piggyback on these emotions and build attraction


7. Use past topics


During past dates with other women, you've probably had
incredible conversations around specific topics.

The truth is these conversations worked for a reason...

They were INTERESTING!

Since you've recently started to date this woman, you've probably
haven't talked about a lot of things. So you can easily use
conversation topics which you have worked on other women.


8. Keep up with current events


Topics of conversation are happening in the world right NOW!

Since the planet is a big place, you can easily find interesting
topics to discuss! All you have to do is listen to the news each
day and you'll have plenty to talk about.

Just remember to stay away from polarizing topics like war,
religion or politics.

Well as you can see, there are lots of things you can discuss on
your date. If you take the time to do a little preparing, you'll
discover that it's actually quite simple create an engaging
conversation which will quickly build attraction.



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