Avoid such kind of girls

On Sunday night, I arrived back to the mumbai from my week
long trip to Agra and New Delhi. I was dog tired and
need of some sleep. So naturally I made the smart decision and
went out with a few friends to a local club.

After a few approaches, I got into a conversation with a girl
I'll call Priya. At first, I was interested in Priya. She was
a tall, willowy college girl from Mumbai. Definitely the kind
I like.

However after a few minutes, I quickly determined that she was
showing all the classic signs of what my friends and I call a
"Trainwreck".

What's a trainwreck? Well this is a girl who fills her life with
extremely poor life decisions. Typically this is someone who
only lives for the moment and thinks nothing about the outcomes
of her decisions.

Like the name describes, a trainwreck is an accident waiting to
happen. If you wait around long enough, things WILL come crashing
down around her.

You can usually spot a trainwreck by a number of qualities. For
instance, she'll:

~~> "Party" or go out to bars 4-5 times a week (Or get REALLY
drunk every time she goes out)

~~> Frequently use hard drugs like cocaine, speed, or Ecstasy

~~> Rarely talk about long-term plans or goals

~~> Need constant attention from many different guys

~~> Have an overall "crazy-eyed" look about her

Now the major problem with trainwrecks is they can be very
attractive. A girl like this can bring a lot of excitement to
your life. Unfortunately, she also provides a ton of chaos and
drama.

In the past, I used to be drawn to girls like Priya. Ones that
were beautiful, and promised that hint of excitement. But
during the last year, I've learned a VERY valuable lesson about
a trainwreck...

YOU CAN'T FIX THEM!

A trainwreck can be fun to be around. What's unfortunate is your
average guy will date a girl like this, expecting that she'll
magically change her self-destructive ways. And after weeks
(even months) of trying to fix her, his life will suffer.

Now if you're NOT looking for a girlfriend or anything
permanent, then you probably date a trainwreck without TOO
much drama.

However, it's important to keep things in perspective. Remember
that she's basically looking for a good time and isn't in the
market for a serious relationship. Furthermore, she's probably
hanging around a LOT of other guys. So don't make the mistake
of thinking of she's "the one." Have fun with her, but don't
lose perspective.

On the other hand, let's say you're a guy who only wants quality
women. IF you encounter a trainwreck, I have a simple piece of
advice...

RUN!

Don't make the mistake of getting involved with a girl like this.
Sure she might be good-looking OR be a nice girl deep down OR
promise that hint of excitement. If you have your shit
together then a girl like this will only bring unnecessary drama
into your life.

To have true success with women, you want to surround yourself
with women who can bring more to the table than just their looks.
They should have qualities that can stimulate you on a number of
levels. And part of having standards means you won't accept ANY
behavior that damages your life.

So when you find yourself in a conversation with a trainwreck,
the best thing to do is to quickly excuse yourself. As they say,
there are plenty of fish in the sea. In the long run, you'll be
much happier if you only interact with women who bring positive
things into YOUR life.