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Friday, September 25, 2009

5 ways to improve your sexual confidence

How is your confidence in the bedroom?

There's a reason why I ask this question. many guys lack
confidence when it comes to pleasing their woman. And when
you have low self-esteem in this area, you'll subconsciously
turn her off.

As a result, your low confidence can damage your dating
life!

The truth is a lot of guys feel a lack of sexual confidence
around women. And when you're unsure about what satisfies a
woman, you'll end up projecting a nervous attitude towards
sex.

But while lots of guys experience some form of anxiety you cant
let this affect your overall performance.

So it's important to understand what pleases women and then
do it !

Only then will you be able to display an unstoppable amount
of sexual confidence.

Now if you're like some guys, then you can easily improve your
success with women by making a dramatic change to your sexual
confidence.

And here are 5 ways you can do it:



Tip #1- Maintain a relaxed attitude

One of the ways that men damage their confidence is by
getting all anxious before they "do the deed".

Acting this way, makes you project an aura of nervousness
that can make her "turned off" by your low self-esteem.

Rather than getting anxious about sex, you should remind
yourself that it's a completely normal part of a relationship.
Even if something bad happens, roll with the punches and
maintain composure.

In other words, stay relaxed!

Tip #2- Understand sexuality

One of the best ways to become a sexually confident guy is to
understand what really pleases a woman. If you understand how
to know how to push her "hot buttons", then it becomes that
much easier to be a great lover.

The best way to do this is experiment with the following:

* Oral sex
* Locating the G-Spot
* Teasing and being seductive
* Building anticipation for "the main event"


Tip #3- Delay your gratification

As you've probably realized, your sexual confidence stems from
being able to please a woman. When you can give pleasure to a
woman any time and any place, you'll project a powerful aura
that she'll love!

And one of the best ways to demonstrate this quality is to delay
your own pleasure during sex. If you provide multiple orgasms
to a woman before worrying taking care of yourself, you'll
transform into a seductive lover.


Tip #4- Be aggressive not timid

Many guys have low self esteem in the bedroom because they're
afraid to take initiative. Believe me- Women want you to take
control!

Once you understand how to give women pleasure, be the
instigator and give her what she wants. Women are turned on
by many things. Primarily, they love a guy who acts like he
can barely control himself when being intimate.

Tip #5- Understand her needs

Women are strange creatures. While some know what they want,
most won't give you a clue about what they secretly desire
from a man.

So it's up to you to figure out what pleases her!

By experimenting with various techniques, you'll eventually
encounter the techniques that drive her crazy with passion.
And then you'll have your "secret weapon" for providing her
with pleasure every single time!

Sexual confidence comes down to understanding women and being
able to discover what pleases them. If you follow the five
steps I discussed in this blog, then you'll be on your way
towards becoming her best lover!

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