9 Steps to turn a friend into girlfriend

There is a certain girl in your life who
has taken control over your thoughts
.She is attractive, interesting and
everything youwant in a woman. In
fact, you can't stop thinking of her.

But, there is a major problem...

She likes you only as a FRIEND.

Sounds familiar right? Well this
happens all the time to guys.They
meet a great woman, but somehow
end up in being thought of as just
as a friend.

Well to be honest, it's actually quite
difficult to go from being a friend to
making things more intimate. The
major problem is women simply
don't view their male friends as
romantic partners.

In order to make a woman see you in
an intimate manner, you have to take
drastic measures!

In this blog, I'm to cover my 9 step to
overcome this problem. While it
might not work all the time, it'll be
your best bet for landing that one
special girl in your life.

Let's get started...


1- Never admit your true feelings

Hopefully before you've read this
article, you haven't made your true
feelings known to this girl. When
you tell a woman that "you like
her" it immediately puts her on
guard and makes her nervous around
you. And when this happens, it'll
make it hard to make things
romantic with her.

Now if you've already admitted
your feelings or have asked her on
a date, then you have to do a
little back peddling.

Before you continue with the rest
of this plan, you must convince her
that you only think of her as a friend.
Typically the best way to do this is
to emphasize the next two steps...


Step 2- Don't let her control your life

The problem with being like Friends
is you've let this girl grow too
comfortable with you. During this
time she has gotten used to you being
ready to please her and cater to her
needs. Since she knows you're her
emotional doormat, she'll never
view you as a "sexual person".

The only way to get her to think of
you as a potential dating partner is
to make her view you as sexual
person. To do this, you have to create
and build sexual tension around her.

Simply communicate that you're not
going to be around for her and you'll
be on your way to establishing brand
new rules for your relationship.

To escape from being friends, you
need to communicate that you
have other activities in your life
which do not concern her.

This means actively pursuing your
hobbies and picking them over
spending time with her. What you're
trying to communicate is that you
don't base your identity only on what
she thinks of you.


Step 3- Hang Out With other women

In order to get things going with your
female friend, you have to trigger her
jealous reactions. An easy way to do this
is discuss attractive girls and make
comments about them whenever you're
around your friend.

This shows that you're a sexual guy who
is not afraid to show what he likes in
women. Also this shows that she has
competition from other women.

If you really want to ramp up her jealous
nature, then I recommend you start dating
different women. If you do this properly,
she'll start to realize that she could be
missing out on a guy who is attractive
to many women.


Step 4- Establish physical contact

If you want her to think of you as a
potential dating partner, you have to
initiate a pattern of touching her.
This means establishing physical contact
whenever you're around her.

Now when I talk about physical contact,
I don't mean you should grope her.
Instead you should act like a buddy who
isn't afraid to touch her. This can include
hugging her and playfully swatting her.

THIS STEP is really important because
you must get her comfortable with you
touching her. The more you touch her,
the more she'll slowly become receptive
towards you becoming her dating partner.


Step 5- Qualify her

Becoming intimate with a woman can
be easily accomplished by acting like a
dominant male that she would want to
date. By demonstrating a strong
personality, your friend will realize
that you are somebody who has high
status. Thus you'll represent a guy
who only wants women who can
match your standards.

The best ways to accomplish is to
talk openly about your standards
and what you want in your life
from a woman. Simply tell her
what you like certain things from
women and how you're tired of girls
not matching your expectations.

The idea behind qualifying women
is to create a candid conversation
how you don't settle down with any
average girl. As your discussion
unfolds, she'll start to talk about
what she wants from a boyfriend.

What's funny is women have a tendency
to qualify themselves with guys they know.
So when you're talking about what you
want from a woman, you'll probably
see her talk about what "makes her
different" from other girls.


Step 6- Be a sexual guy

In order to get intimate with your female
friend, it's important that she think of you
as a sexual guy. The simplest way to do this
is to talk about sex when you're around her.

This means making sexual innuendoes,
talking about past partners, and teasing
her in a flirtatious manner. The more
you can bring sex in a conversation,
the more she'll come back with her own
suggestive comments.

Your goal for this step is to create a
consistent dialogue of sexual playfulness
with your female friend. Once this
happens,she'll start to regard you in
a whole new light.


Step 7- Anchor a sex story

A way to really ramp things up is to
talk about one of your past dating
partners. Bring her up often and mention
how incredible she was in the bedroom.

Now here's where this story gets interesting...

When you tell this story to your female
friend, mention how you had a deep
connection with this girl. One of the
reasons was because this woman used
to be your good friend. Since you and
this girl were buddies, you had a deeper
connection when things turned intimate.

By telling your friend this story, you'll
put a thought in her head that you can
be a sexual guy to women. Furthermore,
just by making things intimate, she'll
become a recipient of a lot of sexual
pleasure.


Step 8-Make her wonder

Once you've developed a pattern of
acting like a sexual guy, you need to
send her mixed signals about how
you feel about her. If you've done
the previous 7 steps correctly, then
she'll probably wonder what it
would be like to date you.

What you want to do is send her
conflicting signals that show that
you're interested and not interested
in her. One moment talk about
how she's a great friend. Then you
discuss the attributes of other women.

At this point, you want to start to let
her know that you're attracted to her.
Now you can't come out and start
saying you like her. Instead, you discuss
things in a sexual yet funny way.

For instance you can talk about a
perfume she's wearing. Let her know
that you really like the smell of it and
you can't handle having her around,
because you don't want to do
"anything you'll regret later".

By doing this, you'll let her know
you think of her in a sexual manner,
but you're also showing that you
still control the entire interaction.


9-Seal the deal


Eventually you'll get to the point
where you've become openly sexual
and physically expressive with your
friend. Primarily you'll be hugging
and touching one another in a
flirtatious manner.

It will be during one of these hugs
where you go to "seal the deal".
During one of your hugs, stop and
look her square in the eye. If she
maintains a prolonged eye contact,
that means she's ready to be kissed.

Simply go for the kiss. Then you can
let things unfold as they should.
If you've followed these steps
properly, then you'll discover that
it's easy to quickly let things
become intimate.

Now I want to be honest with you...

It isn't easy to escape from being friends.
With certain women, if they think
of you as a buddy, then you'll have no
chance of success. So this system
doesn't always work.

But if you're serious about a specific
woman in your life,then I think it's
important to risk a friendship to see
if you can make things intimate.
Simply follow this 9 step plan and
you'll definitely increase your chance
of success!
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